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Good Ways To Spice Things Up If You’re Struggling In The Bedroom

May 1, 2021 By Grace Murphy 2 Comments

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Most people don’t like to freely admit when they’re having trouble in the bedroom. Such a confession is wrongly seen as a weakness to be ashamed of, so many just stay quiet and hope that things improve on their own. Unfortunately, it’s rare that such problems actually get better without any intervention.

The good news is that there are plenty of ways to improve your performance in the bedroom; you just need to know what they are. This guide lists four of the ways you can improve your skills and spice things up after hours, ensuring that you never have a bad night in bed again.

Improve Your Physical Strength

You don’t need to be a gym buff to win over girls and satisfy them in the bedroom. However, spending more time working on your body could help you perform better when the time comes.

Sometimes, it’s easy to forget that sex can be quite the workout, utilising all sorts of muscles you might forget about. If you find that your intimate encounters aren’t that taxing on your body, that could explain why you’re having trouble in the bedroom. While the experience doesn’t have to be an all-out sweatfest, your arms, legs, abs, and back should all be playing their part.

The reason why exercising more often can help with sex is that it can strengthen these areas so that you’re able to last longer in bed. The last thing you want is to take a break after two minutes because you’re worn out and don’t have the strength to keep going. Admittedly, there’s nothing wrong with letting her take control for a little while so you can recover. However, if she ends up having to do all the work, she probably won’t be impressed.

Get Tips From An Expert

Whether they don’t want to hurt your feelings or they’re not actually sure what the problem is, it can be hard to get answers about why you’re bad from the people you sleep with. That can be an issue because if you don’t know where you’re going wrong, you can’t make any improvements.

That’s why it might be worth spending time with an expert, plenty of which you can find at Adultseek. Not only are many of the women here well versed in sex, but they also understand men reasonably well because of all the dates they’ve been on. They know the faults that can often crop up and how to address them without causing offence. Plus, they’re usually not afraid to be open about all things concerning sex, so you don’t need to feel awkward discussing your problems. If the two of you hit it off, they may even show you how to do things properly.

Just spending a few hours with one of these women may give you the confidence booster you need when it comes to the bedroom. If not, you can keep booking time with them until you get there.

Be Present In The Moment

Sex is supposed to be an intimate act between two people, yet many partners forget to truly share the experience with their other half. Maybe they’re unresponsive while receiving pleasure, or they look away during tender moments. Whatever it is, some people just fail to connect with what’s happening, and that can remove some of the fun from the experience.

If you’ve been guilty of this in the past, it’s worth remembering that you’re not alone in the bedroom. Try to make eye contact more often or be more vocal when a girl is going down on you. Try to pay attention to the stuff she likes, too, and do it more often. Simply by being more attentive to your partner, you should find that your encounters go from dull to exciting in an instant.

Introduce New Forms Of Pleasure

Fun in the bedroom is about more than just you penetrating someone. In plenty of cases, such an activity isn’t even included as part of sex. Some people prefer to focus on the various acts of foreplay, as well as integrating toys and kinks, to get their rocks off.

If you’re worried that your go-to method isn’t working, it’s worth switching things up in the future. Maybe spend more time making your partner feel good with your hands and mouth before you unzip. Alternatively, it’s worth seeing if she has any particular interests that you may be open to trying out. It’s always good to have honest discussions about sex with the people you sleep with, especially those who are more than just a one-time encounter. You never know what pleasures you might discover together, which could change things in the bedroom forever.

Being bad in bed isn’t something that you have to live with. Problems like this are easy to fix with the right motivation, though you may need to give it time before your skills are worth idolising. Practice makes perfect, after all.

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Popular Kinks You Should Know About

January 24, 2021 By Grace Murphy 2 Comments

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When it comes to kinks and fetishes, there are all kinds of niche things that some people are turned on by, but others that are relatively popular and well known. If you are looking to explore something new or just want to know what to search for when you are looking for porn or seeing people talk about their own kinks, then here are five popular kinks that tend to be talked about quite often, and which you should know about:

MILFs and Older Women

The kink of being interested in older women, who may or may not be mothers, is a very common one – so common in fact that ‘MILF’ is one of the most popular porn search terms in the world. It is easy to understand the appeal of this one – older women are, at least in most people’s fantasies – more experienced and more confident, and this is something a lot of men find pretty hot. 

Of course, in porn, the term MILF tends to be used more as an age range for the performers, rather than as specifying any particular kink, and so not everybody who is into watching MILF porn stars or interactive things like MILF cam girls is actually younger than the women themselves and has a kink for older women. Still, if you have a kink for MILFs or older women in general, the popularity of this kink means that you will have no trouble finding cam girls to watch in your preferred age range – find out more here by checking out Babe Station, which is one of the best sites around for cam girls and has plenty of MILFs on the roster.

BDSM

BDSM isn’t so much a specific kink as an umbrella term for all kinds of different sexual dynamics that involve domination and submission. The term also covers ‘S&M’, which means sadism and masochism, and bondage. BDSM can cover such a huge array of different sexual practices and interests that in itself is more of a way of identifying you are into kinky stuff in general than being specific about, for instance, whether you are into things like spanking and impact play, or whether you prefer a dominant or submissive role. 

However, since ideas around BDSM have become far more mainstream thanks to the popularity of erotica books like Fifty Shades of Grey – which doesn’t give a particularly accurate idea of what people who are into BDSM do or are like but did make more people curious about the kinks discussed in it – lighter aspects of BDSM like experimenting with being tied up or blindfolded are things even a lot of fairly ‘vanilla’ people do.

Pegging

Pegging is when a woman uses a strap on to anally penetrate a man. This can be part of a BDSM type dynamic where a woman is dominant, also known as femdom, though it is also something some men just enjoy because anal penetration can feel pleasurable due to the prostate stimulation it creates, and for straight men, this is a way to add it into their sex lives. This means that some people who are into pegging prefer the dominatrix aspect of it, whereas others are just into the physical act itself. Pegging is becoming more widely talked about and mainstream, with people who had previously seen strap-ons as something usually used by women on other women as something that can be introduced into heterosexual sex as well.

DDlg

DDlg stands for ‘daddy dominant and little girl’, and while that may make it sound a bit dodgy, it is really just a description of a type of BDSM dynamic between adults, where the dominant in the relationship acts as a kind of caregiver to the submissive, who takes on an extremely submissive persona similar to a child. It can be something that describes only the way the couple interacts sexually or can describe their whole relationship dynamic all the time, depending on how much the people in question see BDSM as a lifestyle versus just something they adopt when they have sex. The term DDlg refers to a relationship with a male dominant and female submissive, but this type of dynamic also exists in reverse, and between same-sex couples, so the dominant and ‘little’ can be of any gender combination.

Cuckold or Hotwife

Cuckoldry refers to men who have a kink for having their wife or partner have sex with other men, usually with an element of humiliation involved for the man himself. Hotwife is an adjacent kink, where within a couple the wife has sex with other people with the husband’s knowledge and permission (often with him watching, joining in, or arranging the encounters for her), but where the humiliation of the husband isn’t part of it.

These are just some of the most talked-about kinks and sex terms right now, and of course, there are hundreds of other fetishes, kinks, and sex acts that you can find out about or explore!



Grace is an experienced writer who loves to create content on a variety of lifestyle topics, including relationships and dating.

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