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Torture Garden Los Angeles

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The largest international fetish club from London is coming to the City of Angels for the first time in 17 years on Saturday, Sept. 14, 2019, at the Globe Theatre from 9:30pm – 3 am.  This incredibly unique evening features international DJs, latex fashion shows, play space, plus burlesque, drag, aerial, and kink performances with talent from London, New York, Spain, Australia, and, of course, Los Angeles. Torture Garden creates an environment that accepts and encourages individualism, diversity, and free self-expression.
Pre-sale VIP, table, and general admission tickets available at:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/torture-garden-in-los-angeles-tickets-59023787738?aff=PRESS

Additional links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/torturegardenlosangeles/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/torturegardenlosangeles/
Fetlife:  https://fetlife.com/events/805672

Club Awakening-July 27th!!!!

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New to kink? Not new but want to brush up on skills or just enjoy a play party with fresh energy? CLUB AWAKENING is what you’re looking for!

JULY 27th! July’s party will include a SPECIAL PERFORMANCE to kick off the night!

Club Awakening is a party that was designed for newbies in the BDSM scene. It’s been a monthly party since March 2016 at Sanctuary LAX. This party includes 4 set tasting booths plus one surprise booth each month. The set booths are hands on play (spanking, face slapping, etc), crops/canes/paddles, flogging, and rope. You can either feel what these things feel like as a bottom or learn how to do these things as a Top – or both! We even have several volunteer practice bottoms to lend a helping hand (aka butt) so you can practice even without a play partner. Other volunteers float the venue to answer questions and help point you in the right direction.

There are also 2-3 vendors and a midnight raffle – with multiple prizes to win! We provide a coat and bag check for a nominal fee as well as a fun photo booth where you can get pics taken of you and your friends to commemorate the night!

You can get DISCOUNTED pre-sale tickets or pay at the door! (see below for links)

About the venue:

Sanctuary Studios LAX is proud to have been named “Best Dungeon in Los Angeles” by TimeOut Magazine – February 2016

Sanctuary LAX is a Los Angeles dungeon located within close proximity to LAX. It features a state of the art, air-conditioned facility completely rebuilt from the ground up under the direction of Mistress Cyan. Formerly known as Passive Arts, Sanctuary Studios LAX is the largest Dungeon in Los Angeles with more than 7000 sq ft. and a 1500 sq. ft. main room. The location features many rooms (both large and more intimate), high ceilings, and a large variety of dungeon furniture. It is complete with an outdoor smoking patio and a stage in the main room with plenty of seating.

Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/2233844943549546/

Fetlife Club Awakening Group page: https://fetlife.com/groups/138431

Fetlife event page: https://fetlife.com/events/772050

Pre-sale DISCOUNTED TICKETS: https://clubawakeningjuly2019.eventbrite.com

Kinky Karaoke! July 13th!

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Kinky Karaoke Play Party is celebrating 2 YEARS and Lostnfound1’s bday with a TOTALLY 80’s Night!!!

Come SING on STAGE!

Come SING along from the TABLES!!

Come BEAT some BOOTY while friends sing to the BEAT of their favorite song!

Have a drink with FRIENDS and get SILLY!

That’s right….KARAOKE NIGHT AT THE DUNGEON!! Jenn / lostnfound1 is excited to host a one of a kind play party!

Fantastic professional Karaoke DJ will be in the house!!

Special performances of “The Singing Masochist”!

This is a great fun night for anyone – but also a wonderful opportunity to bring friends who have been scared to walk inside a dungeon. Karaoke spans across the kink and vanilla divide!!!

So whether you love karaoke, want an excuse to get out and play or want to have a great night doing BOTH – this party should be a BLAST!!

COST: $20 at the door plus whatever you spend at the bar.

Where: Sanctuary LAX 10914 S. La Cienega Blvd, Lennox, CA 90304

What time: 9pm – 2am!

Food and snacks will be provided but feel free to bring stuff to share if you’d like!

There will be a cash bar for those that are 21+ – yet I remind you to drink and play responsibly! If you get sloshed you may very well be asked to get a ride home.
This will be a regular OPEN PLAY PARTY – which means it will have less restrictions than Club Awakening. Edge play is allowed as long as you get the ok from a DM. No bodily fluid exchange (aka no genital/genital or oral/genital contact) and no penetration.

About the venue:

Sanctuary Studios LAX is proud to have been named “Best Dungeon in Los Angeles” by TimeOut Magazine – February 2016

Sanctuary LAX is a Los Angeles dungeon located within close proximity to LAX. It features a state of the art, air-conditioned facility completely rebuilt from the ground up under the direction of Mistress Cyan. Formerly known as Passive Arts, Sanctuary Studios LAX is the largest Dungeon in Los Angeles with more than 7000 sq ft. and a 1500 sq. ft. main room. The location features many rooms (both large and more intimate), high ceilings, and a large variety of dungeon furniture. It is complete with an outdoor smoking patio and a stage in the main room with plenty of seating.

Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/329308751053716/

Fetlife Kinky Karaoke Play Party Group page: https://fetlife.com/groups/158264

Fetlife event page: https://fetlife.com/events/772030

Interview with Simone Justice

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Can you tell us a little about how you became involved in the Kink Community? Can you tell us a little about yourself, your career, and your current involvement in this community?

I became involved in the kink community in the nineties when I started going to public events. Prior to that, it had been a private part of my life. For a time after that, it became most of my life, because I immersed myself in it. I joined organizations, took classes, socialized, wrote about and worked in the kink community for years and then started teaching and organizing events, as well. My participation has ebbed at times, but ever since I set foot in that first nightclub and was warmly welcomed, I have been a member of the kink community, and I always will be.

A little about myself: I was born in California and have lived all along the coast, until recently moving to Fort Worth, TX. I think the details of my life that best describe my personality are my degrees, a B.A. in Philosophy and a Master’s in Psychology. I love to travel for the learning experience of being somewhere foreign and meeting people who live in a different way.

My dominatrix career, I owe to the generosity of the late Mistress Sabrina Belladonna, who hired me to join the lineup of dommes in her house of domination, The Velvet Underground. After I went independent, I started going to NYC for sessions once a month and traveled the world to play.  I also began performing on stage at Club Sin-A-Matic and other venues. Later, I owned a dungeon, The Halls of Justice, on Sunset Blvd in Hollywood where I began teaching to train several dommes who worked there. I’ve continued teaching and have mentored many of the globe’s most successful ProDommes. I hope that I honor my mentor and give back to the community by teaching what I know at conferences, in weekend immersion workshops and on the phone. I don’t do in person sessions anymore, only phone and webcam.

What fulfills you most about being involved in this community?

Giving back to the community that has given so much to me.

Has kink led to any self-growth for you? How has it helped you in your own life?

My relationship skills have definitely grown through the practice of negotiation, setting boundaries and the co-creating process of kink. I’ve also learned important lessons through my mistakes. For example, underestimating the impact I could have on a play partner taught me to be more careful in my all my interpersonal interactions.

What do you find most beneficial about being a dominatrix?

The humility that comes from being placed in a position of power.

What do you feel your clients gain from sessions with you?

I hope that they gain at least a temporary satisfaction of their desires/needs.

What are your specialties?

Verbal and psychological domination.

What is the biggest challenge you have faced concerning your job?

The confusion that clients now have about how to find and evaluate ProDommes, which compounds their lack of self-understanding about their kinks and fetishes that they used to gain from guidance by experienced dominatrices.

What are your core values? How do these factor into your profession, your involvement in the Kink Community, and your personal life?

My core values are Integrity, Honesty and Compassion, by which I am guided and try to uphold in all aspects of my life.

What is the best advice you can give to someone that wants to become a dominatrix? What makes for a great Dominatrix?

My best advice is to take classes from people who can give you helpful feedback.

A great dominatrix is safe, ethical and skilled.

How do your own fetishes factor into your work?

There are some things I won’t do, and some that I like best, but in general, it is not what we do, the kinks or fetishes, but rather how we do it together that matters to me. It is the energy exchange that I care about most. My biggest “fetish” is excelling in my scenes. My favorite kinks are flogging, sensory dep and hypnosis.

What do you feel is the biggest challenge the community faces right now? What do you feel needs to be done about this?  How can your work help? How can the general public help?

The biggest challenge is growing too fast to maintain safety standards by educating newbies. I think that we need to be welcoming of new people and take personal responsibility for being helpful and informative. Some people don’t want to share what they know, I think that attitude hurts the community. My work can help when I teach basic and free/less expensive classes and post info on the internet. The general public needs us to help them through conscientious interaction, understanding of their ignorance, and a willingness to inform their curiosity.

What is the best advice you can give to someone concerning power exchange dynamics?

Don’t let anyone tell you who you are, what you want, or when it is too much for you – decide for yourself.

What are some common misconceptions about being a D type? What do you feel needs to be done to eradicate this/these stereotype(s)?

A misconception is that D types don’t need aftercare. I think dominants asking for their own aftercare needs to met, even if it feels uncomfortably non-dominating, is important.

When did you first know you were kinky? Was it evident in childhood?

Yes, it was evident to me early on that I was into kink, so I started playing in my teens.

Do you have a personal motto? How do you live by this?

I don’t have a personal motto, I haven’t found one that feels right.

Are you currently working on any new projects? If so, what are they?

I am working on improving my classes, and looking into new ways to teach through webcam conferences and maybe online modules.

What would say is your overall mission concerning everything kink? How do you plan to achieve this?

My overall mission is to contribute through my teaching and writing and to try to honor my mentors in every act of participation, no matter how small.

Any closing words?

Thank you for this experience, answering your questions required introspection, vulnerability, and community awareness

About Simone Justice

Simone Justice is a BDSM Hall of Famer, long time lifestyle member of the BDSM community, internationally renowned dominatrix, BDSM educator, mentor to many of the world’s top dominatrices, Sublime Lady of OWK, producer of kink events, performer, TV & film BDSM consultant and writer.

Club Awakening- June 29th!

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New to kink? Not new but want to brush up on skills or just enjoy a play party with fresh energy? CLUB AWAKENING is what you’re looking for!

Club Awakening is a party that was designed for newbies in the BDSM scene. It’s been a monthly party since March 2016 at Sanctuary LAX. This party includes 4 set tasting booths plus one surprise booth each month. The set booths are hands on play (spanking, face slapping, etc), crops/canes/paddles, flogging, and rope. You can either feel what these things feel like as a bottom or learn how to do these things as a Top – or both! We even have several volunteer practice bottoms to lend a helping hand (aka butt) so you can practice even without a play partner. Other volunteers float the venue to answer questions and help point you in the right direction.

There are also 2-3 vendors and a midnight raffle – with multiple prizes to win! We provide a coat and bag check for a nominal fee as well as a fun photo booth where you can get pics taken of you and your friends to commemorate the night!

You can get DISCOUNTED pre-sale tickets or pay at the door! (see below for links)

About the venue:

Sanctuary Studios LAX is proud to have been named “Best Dungeon in Los Angeles” by TimeOut Magazine – February 2016

Sanctuary LAX is a Los Angeles dungeon located within close proximity to LAX. It features a state of the art, air-conditioned facility completely rebuilt from the ground up under the direction of Mistress Cyan. Formerly known as Passive Arts, Sanctuary Studios LAX is the largest Dungeon in Los Angeles with more than 7000 sq ft. and a 1500 sq. ft. main room. The location features many rooms (both large and more intimate), high ceilings, and a large variety of dungeon furniture. It is complete with an outdoor smoking patio and a stage in the main room with plenty of seating.

Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/594327644364903/

Fetlife Club Awakening Group page: https://fetlife.com/groups/138431

Fetlife event page: https://fetlife.com/events/772048

Pre-sale DISCOUNTED TICKETS: https://clubawakeningjune2019.eventbrite.com

Club Awakening-May 18!

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Club Awakening Write Up LAX – Kink Weekly

New to kink? Not new but want to brush up on skills or just enjoy a play party with fresh energy? CLUB AWAKENING is what you’re looking for!

Club Awakening is a party that was designed for newbies in the BDSM scene. It’s been a monthly party since March 2016 at Sanctuary LAX. This party includes 4 set tasting booths plus one surprise booth each month. The set booths are hands on play (spanking, face slapping, etc), crops/canes/paddles, flogging, and rope. You can either feel what these things feel like as a bottom or learn how to do these things as a Top – or both! We even have several volunteer practice bottoms to lend a helping hand (aka butt) so you can practice even without a play partner. Other volunteers float the venue to answer questions and help point you in the right direction.

There are also 2-3 vendors and a midnight raffle – with multiple prizes to win! We provide a coat and bag check for a nominal fee as well as a fun photo booth where you can get pics taken of you and your friends to commemorate the night!

You can get DISCOUNTED pre-sale tickets or pay at the door! (see below for links)

About the venue:

Sanctuary Studios LAX is proud to have been named “Best Dungeon in Los Angeles” by TimeOut Magazine – February 2016

Sanctuary LAX is a Los Angeles dungeon located within close proximity to LAX. It features a state of the art, air-conditioned facility completely rebuilt from the ground up under the direction of Mistress Cyan. Formerly known as Passive Arts, Sanctuary Studios LAX is the largest Dungeon in Los Angeles with more than 7000 sq ft. and a 1500 sq. ft. main room. The location features many rooms (both large and more intimate), high ceilings, and a large variety of dungeon furniture. It is complete with an outdoor smoking patio and a stage in the main room with plenty of seating.

Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/325590214764818/

Fetlife Club Awakening Group page: https://fetlife.com/groups/138431

Fetlife event page: https://fetlife.com/events/768987

Pre-sale DISCOUNTED TICKETS: https://clubawakeningmay2019.eventbrite.com

GINA AND ERNEST’S PALACE OF PLEASURE AND PAIN

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So what else is new?

After two years immersed in The Dark Lust of “The Truth About O (www.truthabouto.com)” with all it’s grim realities I felt the need to write something purely entertaining and sexy with no pretensions to profundity whatsoever.

I teamed up with ace BDSM CGI artist Gina Harper to create an illustrated novel about a secret prison for misbehaving CNC slaves where their Masters and Mistresses can send them off to be disciplined by professionals. The “owners” in question are all rich, of course, so they can afford to outsource the exhausting task of retraining beautiful submissive women to perfect servitude.

Of course, we had to create a secret network to operate this state-of-the-art facility where extreme and extremely erotic sadomasochistic practices create a perpetual state of arousal among prisoners and staff alike. Unexpected intimacies develop, leading to intrigues of all sorts and relationships of the most perverse kind that flourish in an atmosphere of shameless perversity.

The sexual tension is constant and the daily activities are imaginatively debauched, all captured in thirty-plus shockingly luscious and lusciously shocking images created by Gina Harper’s keyboard wizardry.

I’m proud to say this is the without doubt the dirtiest book I’ve ever written and the most fun. It was written and illustrated with blissful indifference to current BDSM orthodoxy and is intended purely to arouse and amuse.

And you can view it starting right now in serialization on Patreon, the crowd-funded site for artists and writers, at  www.patreon.com/palaceofpleasureandpain.  Unlike the inmates you don’t have to do anything bad to gain admittance. Just five bucks per episode admits you to another chapter and another image from this entirely twisted and unexpectedly romantic alternate universe.

For the thirty weeks you’ll have something unabashedly pervy to which to look forward. Check your inhibitions and your clothes at the gate and check it out.

Spoken of only in whispers within the secretive circles where some of the world’s most desirable women are traded as voluntary sex slaves of the most dedicated kind, some think The Palace of Punishment is a myth. The rich and powerful Masters and Mistresses who own these precious properties inflict their cruel, depraved desires on them with a diabolical and ingenious assortment of mental and physical torments. It ‘s certainly not be beyond them to rumor the existence of a specialized prison where errant slaves are subjected to a merciless regimen that inevitably shapes them precisely to their owners’ preferences.   The mere threat of a tour of this highly specialized hell for women is enough to make most slave girls tremble, sweat and, most of all, obey. Most of the collared class would much prefer to believe that The Palace is just another nightmare with which to keep them properly frightened and humbled.

But an even more select group of young women can only wish The Pain Palace, as they call it, never existed: the inmates. Those who have been sent to this remote location, usually by private jets with the window shades down, served their sentences there, endured the harrowing routine of its unbending protocols and returned to serve in utter submission know too well how real the facility is.

In thirty installments cutting-edge render artist Gina Harper and ace BDSM fiction writer Ernest Greene take us inside the palace walls through the illustrated, narrated experiences of three women: Lola, Denise and Lisette, each of whom has been sentenced to this bizarre purgatory where agony and ecstasy are inflicted with equal enthusiasm by a staff schooled in the most sophisticated techniques. Viewers will see what these women endure and readers will know their responses to the experience by the end of terms spent in constant, naked, arousal and suffering as the strange intimacy of the cellblocks nurtures unexpected relationships between ruthless disciplinarians and delectable prisoners.

Each week, a stunning new work of art will appear, accompanied by a narrative no one less experienced in the ways of Masters, Mistresses and slaves could have written, until justice is fully served, raw and shocking.

When you enter these gates prepare yourself for a world of shameless lust and voluptuous cruelty where discipline and debauchery in every form are all in a day’s work.

Check it out now!

https://www.patreon.com/palaceofpleasureandpain

 

Club Awakening-April 27, 2019

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New to kink? Not new but want to brush up on skills or just enjoy a play party with fresh energy? CLUB AWAKENING is what you’re looking for!

Club Awakening is a party that was designed for newbies in the BDSM scene. It’s been a monthly party since March 2016 at Sanctuary LAX. This party includes 4 set tasting booths plus one surprise booth each month. The set booths are hands on play (spanking, face slapping, etc), crops/canes/paddles, flogging, and rope. You can either feel what these things feel like as a bottom or learn how to do these things as a Top – or both! We even have several volunteer practice bottoms to lend a helping hand (aka butt) so you can practice even without a play partner. Other volunteers float the venue to answer questions and help point you in the right direction.

There are also 2-3 vendors and a midnight raffle – with multiple prizes to win! We provide a coat and bag check for a nominal fee as well as a fun photo booth where you can get pics taken of you and your friends to commemorate the night!

You can get DISCOUNTED pre-sale tickets or pay at the door! (see below for links)

About the venue:

Sanctuary Studios LAX is proud to have been named “Best Dungeon in Los Angeles” by TimeOut Magazine – February 2016

Sanctuary LAX is a Los Angeles dungeon located within close proximity to LAX. It features a state of the art, air-conditioned facility completely rebuilt from the ground up under the direction of Mistress Cyan. Formerly known as Passive Arts, Sanctuary Studios LAX is the largest Dungeon in Los Angeles with more than 7000 sq ft. and a 1500 sq. ft. main room. The location features many rooms (both large and more intimate), high ceilings, and a large variety of dungeon furniture. It is complete with an outdoor smoking patio and a stage in the main room with plenty of seating.

Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/2381970238747350/

Fetlife Club Awakening Group page: https://fetlife.com/groups/138431

Fetlife event page: https://fetlife.com/events/746949

Pre-sale DISCOUNTED TICKETS: https://clubawakeningapril2019.eventbrite.com

Club Awakening-3 Year Anniversary!

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Club Awakening is celebrating it’s 3 YEAR ANNIVERSARY!!!

New to kink? Not new but want to brush up on skills or just enjoy a play party with fresh energy? CLUB AWAKENING is what you’re looking for!

Club Awakening is a party that was designed for newbies in the BDSM scene. It’s been a monthly party since March 2016 at Sanctuary LAX. This party includes 4 set tasting booths plus one surprise booth each month. The set booths are hands on play (spanking, face slapping, etc), crops/canes/paddles, flogging, and rope. You can either feel what these things feel like as a bottom or learn how to do these things as a Top – or both! We even have several volunteer practice bottoms to lend a helping hand (aka butt) so you can practice even without a play partner. Other volunteers float the venue to answer questions and help point you in the right direction.

There are also 2-3 vendors and a midnight raffle – with multiple prizes to win! We provide a coat and bag check for a nominal fee as well as a fun photo booth where you can get pics taken of you and your friends to commemorate the night!

You can get DISCOUNTED pre-sale tickets or pay at the door! (see below for links)

About the venue:

Sanctuary Studios LAX is proud to have been named “Best Dungeon in Los Angeles” by TimeOut Magazine – February 2016

Sanctuary LAX is a Los Angeles dungeon located within close proximity to LAX. It features a state of the art, air-conditioned facility completely rebuilt from the ground up under the direction of Mistress Cyan. Formerly known as Passive Arts, Sanctuary Studios LAX is the largest Dungeon in Los Angeles with more than 7000 sq ft. and a 1500 sq. ft. main room. The location features many rooms (both large and more intimate), high ceilings, and a large variety of dungeon furniture. It is complete with an outdoor smoking patio and a stage in the main room with plenty of seating.

Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/958704697586823/

Fetlife Club Awakening Group page: https://fetlife.com/groups/138431

Fetlife event page: https://fetlife.com/events/746945

Pre-sale DISCOUNTED TICKETS: https://clubawakeningmarch2019.eventbrite.com