I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  The question of marriage, as it relates to power dynamics, seems to baffle people. I often get asked, “Should a dominant marry … [Read more...]

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  This morning, I received a PM on Fetlife from a woman who is new to dominance. She was a switch in past relationships, but found … [Read more...]

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  Each week, I get a number of emails from couples who are struggling with issues regarding their power dynamics. I’ve noticed that … [Read more...]