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BDSM Scene Idea: Bondage Mitts

November 28, 2016 By Desdemona 1 Comment

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You may have seen our buying guide from last week on bondage mitts. We wanted give you some user tested ideas on how to maximize this fun accessory into your scenes! Also I use the pronoun her or she in this article but these ideas would be suitable for any sexual orientation.

Sensory Deprivation
Aside from being blindfolded, having your hands restrained is arguably one of the most frustrating acts of bondage, at least this is what my submissive anniebear tells me. Well, me being the sadist I am, of course I’ll up the ante by both blindfolding her and restraining her hands in bondage mitts. That’s not to say I’ll leave her this way for the whole scene (or maybe I will) but I like to begin this scene with a blindfold and bondage mitts, clipping the mitts above her head so she feels completely exposed. She will then be open to any sort of fun things I have planned for her such as sensation play, nipple clamps, perhaps feeding her something that tastes terrible-the sky is the limit! I prefer leather type mitts that have a ring to actually lock the buckle and also an o-ring to clip the mitts together or to other objects. Basically, versatility is key. Giving your submissive a sense of helplessness or “I couldn’t get out even if I tried” puts them in a great headspace.

Assign a Task
Nothing is more hilarious than putting bondage mitts on your submissive and then assigning her any number of nearly impossible tasks. For example, have them prepare you a snack from the kitchen and then stand back and watch the hilarity ensue. Don’t want to hear her whining throughout the task? Throw a ball gag in her mouth. You could also have them tidy up the house or fold clothes. They’ll probably have to redo the task at a later date which is all the more frustrating for them.

Give a Massage
Have your submissive give you a massage while wearing bondage mitts. It’ll be a terrible massage, but (if this has been negotiated) you can remind them what a terrible job they are doing and for every minute they do not improve will be an additional minute of discipline.

Draw a Picture
I have a very modest play partner who blushes at the sight of pornography so I like to find the nastiest photo possible and then have her draw her own version of it with limited use of her bound hands. Of course I’ll then proceed to grade her “work” and likeness to the original photo. I tend to circle the “mistakes” I find and then add them up at the end for the number of strikes or duration of punishment for said mistakes.

Pick Up Objects
This is a fun idea I observed at a dungeon once. The Dominant threw a box of toothpicks onto the floor and then required the submissive to pick them up, while wearing bondage mitts. Depending on the type of mitts you have your submissive in, this task could be nearly impossible. We watched for nearly ten minutes as the sub struggled and thought of every way in which she could pick up the toothpicks, eventually resorting to using her mouth. The Dom finally took pity on her and moved onto something else. But it was hilarious and fun watching her struggle!

These are just some starting points for you to go off of. The scene ideas are endless! Remember to always negotiate with your play partner before starting the scene and to have appropriate safe words in the event it does not go as planned. Here is our buying guide with some true tested mitts. Happy playing!

Writer, photographer, hedonist, Dom. After years of at-home BDSM, Dexx finally embraced the kink community and met many fantastic fellow kinksters in the scene. Along the way, it occurred to him that it would be just super if there was a magazine-style web site which catered to people interested in BDSM, and he recruited some of his friends to help create it.

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Buying Guide – Bondage Mitts

November 16, 2016 By Desdemona 1 Comment

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Bondage mitts… oh what fun! OK, unlike cuffs, collars and floggers, these aren’t part of your every day BDSM scene. When you bring these out to play, you’ll be making a statement to your submissive. And that is “you might be able to move your arms around, but you sure won’t be doing anything useful with them until I’m ready to let you out”.

For many players, mitts have strong ties to pet-play. That is, where your submissive role plays as a puppy, kitty or other animal.

But mitts can be incorporated in just about any scene. They add an extra element of inescapable feeling to any kind of bondage. With no way to use hands or fingers, the bottom can’t fiddle with ropes or locks, or detach carabiners, leashes or straps. And most importantly, they will know it, which can send them deeper yet down the sub-space hole.

And then, of course, you can construct an entire scene around the mitts. Ordinarily simple tasks, like making a sandwich for you, take on a whole new dimension when the obedient submissive is restricted by bondage mitts. It could be challenging & frustrating for them, and it could reinforce feelings of submission and achievement for completing you instruction. For the Dominant? Pure enjoyment and entertainment as you watch your partner work their way through figuring out an ordinarily simple task.

Leather Bondage Mitts by Edgeplay Gear
Leather Bondage Mitts by Edgeplay Gear ★★★★★$$$$$
Sturdy, inescapable and surprisingly well-priced - these are the benchmark in bondage mitts. There is extra padding in this set, so its comfortable enough for your sub to crawl around in. Good for puppy play, or all kinds of fun bondage predicaments. I like the loop on the buckle so it can be padlocked closed. There are few things as sexy as your submissive wearing these and nothing else. All that, and they'll give you a 10% discount if you enter the code "kinkweekly" during checkout.
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KinkLab Leather Bondage Mitts from Stockroom
KinkLab Leather Bondage Mitts from Stockroom ★★★★★$$$$$
These mitts are a thinner leather and will hug the hands rather than holding their shape. They also lace closed - and then get held closed with a leather strap over the top. These are a pretty good starter pair and once on, can be locked in place with padlocks.
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Puppy Paw Mittens by Hot Steel Toys
Puppy Paw Mittens by Hot Steel Toys ★★★★★$$$$$
For the pet-play enthusiast, the paw prints will add a nice touch to these adorable mitts. They are padded and firm on the outside so will keep their shape. On the down side, they aren't pack-lockable and they ship from Europe so take a bit longer to arrive. here.
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Steel Bondage Fist Mitts by Extreme Restraints
Steel Bondage Fist Mitts by Extreme Restraints ★★★★★$$$$$
An unusual take on mitts. These are steel which brings a certain more serious, dungeone-y feel to the play. Your sub will feel very helpless once encased in these. They're heavy! So they lend themselves well to tasks involving lifting arms up, if you want to challenge your sub. Don't piss them off too much though - these things could function as weapons! Also, definitely not cheap.
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Tips for mitts:
  • The cuff part around the wrist is what holds it in place. Like with any cuffs, be sure that it’s not so tight as to interfere with circulation. Check back regularly. Assuming they aren’t too tight, they should be pretty safe for extended wear.
  • Thicker, padded mitts will hold their shape and be more comfortable for the wearer to crawl around on their hands.
  • Mitts can be an alternative to a chastity belt – male or female, it sure is difficult to get yourself off with mitts on. Having said that, they aren’t exactly discreet for wearing in public. And they won’t be able to do many household tasks (including typing), so productivity will fall dramatically.
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