I talk a lot to people I have close relationships with, whether they be friends, romantic interests, or actual partners. The thing is, sometimes I talk to them because there is an issue which requires action. Example:  Daddy, I'm feeling like I need attention. Would you mind putting down your tablet and just talking to me about nothing for a little while? Obviously in … [Read more...]

As someone who has always heavily landed in the BDSM camp, I've eyed swingers with some dubious hesitation for a long time. My first experience was at a long-closed swingers club I went to not knowing what it was.  I had some couple try to pick me up, but I wasn't particularly open-minded about my bisexuality back then, and I politely danced my way through the evening solo.  I … [Read more...]

I think one of my biggest overall frustrations with communication in general is that it does not behave like a cookie cutter.  I can't just press my method of communication on someone else and have them conform to it instantly.  Communication is more like piping frosting.  It is delicate, malleable and starts as a big blob that need to adjust to the people who are utilizing it … [Read more...]

You may remember a while back that I wrote about the possible relationship between some of my childhood experiences and my desire as an adult to have a nurturing Dominant [www.kinkweekly.com/article-kink-weekly/relationship-childhood-dynamic/]. I created a survey with six questions.  I had dreamed of a thousand responses, but hoped for a hundred.  Unfortunately, I only … [Read more...]