Rika’s Lair-Autonomous Submissives

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  This week, I was looking through articles on autonomous vehicles and started to think about my submissives. Strange correlation, … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair- Advice for Online Introductions

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly! Being a dominant with a real life as well as online presence, I’m often approached by submissives looking for relationships. Some … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair- At The Tip Of My Finger…Literally

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  I’m usually focused on the intent of activity rather than the activity itself. However, today I feel like sharing a little … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair-Keeping Your Dynamic Under Wraps

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  I often get asked if there are techniques that can be used to keep an active dynamic hidden from prying eyes: Kids, families, … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  I was recently having a conversation with a friend on FetLife, who was lamenting that none of the women he met have been willing … [Read more...]