To Switch Or Not To Switch?

With the “Changing of the Old Guard,” I would like to address actual questions that are submitted to me. My answers, of course, are merely my opinions and should be taken as such. Nevertheless, our aim here at should be to encourage BDSM dialogue, and answering actual questions is one good place to start. Here is this week’s question: “I am a Millennial new … [Read more...]

Opinion: Taking Up the Mantle of Mastery

There is much debate in our community as to the use of the word Master. To some it is about describing their role in a power exchange relationship. To others it means that they have mastered a particular skill set or knowledge. Some even have a “kajira” classification for slaves - a term which is taken straight from the John Norman GOR novels where men are Masters and all women … [Read more...]