Don’t Put Yourself In A Box

Hello lovely readers! I wanted to take some time to talk about labeling and “putting one’s self in a box.” While using labels/identifiers are one of the ways we make sense of the world, ourselves, and others, I greatly urge one to not become married to these types of things.  People are changing and shifting constantly. Change is part of growth and learning. If we … [Read more...]

Mindfulness and Community During Covid-19

In these trying times of Covid-19, it’s important to remain positive and think of what we can do, instead of what we can’t. This is a great time to focus on being mindful, grateful, present, and honing our relationship and kink skills.  For example, since all my jobs are currently shut down, I have re-dedicated myself to serving my Master in ways I was able to before I … [Read more...]

It’s The Little Things

Hello lovely readers! It’s been a while. Last time I wrote I was in a 24/7 1950’s-inspired power exchange dynamic. Please refer to my 1950’s articles to gain a better understanding of what I am talking about if you are just tuning in (type in my name in the search bar and they should come up). With wanting to buy a house, some recent medical challenges, and my PTSD … [Read more...]

My Favorite Things About Power Exchange

Power exchange, in my opinion, is such a beautiful thing for many reasons. It promotes such healthy vulnerability, communication, trust, and structure when done correctly and consensually. Many relationships will naturally drift apart and become comfortable. However, for power exchange to truly thrive it demands that all parties remain present, proactive, and … [Read more...]

Patience Is Key To Power Exchange

I am sure most of us have heard others in the lifestyle talk about the importance of communication, transparency, self-awareness, safety, etc. All of these are so valuable and needed within any kind of power exchange or scene, but what we don’t talk about as regularly is that it takes patience to breed these things. Now, I am in NO way recommending anyone to jump into … [Read more...]