Christmas parties, Hannukah parties, work parties, Christmas crackers, mulled wine, mistletoe. Yes, it’s all great stuff. But darn it they can interfere with the kink calendar sometimes. Yes, that’s me being the Grinch because I was so busy with vanilla things this weekend that I couldn’t get to any of the fun events on at the dungeons around town.
Not to worry, I shall make up for it next weekend. Spankings all round!
I did meet a girl at one of the vanilla parties who is definitely pretty kinky, but hasn’t yet discovered the scene. She told me about how she keeps asking her boyfriend to spank her and choke her and he can’t bring himself to do it. Sounds like pretty much every kinky person ever when attached to a vanilla partner before discovering the kink community, myself included. My advice if you’re kinky and dating vanilla? Don’t do it people! If you’re kinky, no amount of convincing will make a vanilla person get it, and no amount of trying will make you stop craving and needing BDSM.
What to get for the naughty submissive this Christmas? Stuck for ideas for your loving Dom? Check out anniebear’s guide to some last minute stocking stuffers courtesy of our friends at Edgeplay Gear.