Long-distance becomes a challenge for people that are in relationships. Couples that are many miles apart must work diligently to spice things up and keep the love connection strong. Those that are serious about maintaining a relationship with their mate will look for ways to keep the fire burning. There are many ways to do this. Creative couples can always find fun ways to connect, even when they are not physically together.
1. Phone calls
In the world of social media, it has become so easy to get lost in those text message only relationships. People can find themselves drifting apart because they’re not having conversations. Some text messages get lost in translation. It is advantageous for anyone that is engaging in a long-distance relationship to consider making phone calls. A sexy voice in the middle of the night can be alluring. People that put their time into making calls are also reassuring their partners of their love.
2. Remote Control Sex Toys
Another thing that helps people that are in long-distance relationships are remote control sex toys, especially vibrators. It should be no surprise that sex toys can be great for video calls. It is easy to watch one another with remote vibrators and experience intimacy even when there is distance. There should always be an outlet for expressing intimacy between couples, and it is essential to put these remote sex toys to use regularly because it strengthens the bond.
3. Watching Movies Together
It is easier to watch movies together in the age of video streaming. You can engage in conversations about movies as you watch something at the same time. There are so many movies that you can stream, and this makes it easy to find apps that have movies that both of you can start simultaneously.
4. Virtual Reality Video Games
Playing virtual reality games together can also be something that spices up a relationship. There is a wide multitude of gaming options for those that are interested in the virtual world.
There is no shortage of gaming possibilities when it comes to playing action games and simulation games. Couples can feel like they are genuinely connected and in the same room with one another when they dive into these virtual reality experiences.
5. Video Calls / Dance Together While Apart
Participating in video calls gives you a chance to see one another. Seduction can occur this way. A little cleavage or a bit of undressing through a video chat can be a massive turn on that can open the doors to a stimulating evening.
6. Raunchy Text Messages
This teasing with live video footage can be enhanced with raunchy text messages as well. Sending sweet text messages to one another during the day is nice, but a couple of sexual innuendos help couples shift gear and spice things up.
This is great because it is a short and simple way to let your partner know that you are thinking about them. The sexy text message is a break from the usual good morning or goodnight text messages. It heightens the level of arousal between long-distance couples and builds up the passion in the relationship.
7. Snail Mail
Couples that think outside of the box see the beauty of the snail mail. They know that they can send beautifully crafted letters to one another that is much deeper than a text message. Crafting a letter takes time. It is showing extra effort. Letting writing is a lost art in the love department. Sending letters where you express your feelings can be something that can turn on your partner. The ability to have a letter that they can hold on to as a keepsake will go a long way.
8. Sending Gifts To One Another
It is also good to consider using the postal mail service to send gifts to one another. Sending a gift that is a surprise can be something that turns up the heat when it comes to a long-distance relationship. A package with sexy remote toys and other things like candy or your partner’s favorite music can be very useful in spicing up a long-distance romance. Everyone loves to get a gift and giving people gifts that they can use with you will be a great way to connect when you contact one another.
Listening to music together is something that can truly enhance the relationship as well. Some apps allow people to create playlists that they can upload and share with another. Take the time to video call one another and dance together to your favorite songs. Love songs that you share make for some of the best relationship memories.
10. Planned Trips / Spontaneous Trips
Every aspect of the relationship does not have to be planned. Spontaneity is the spice of life in the relationship world. Sometimes it is good to decide to meet up spontaneously. Making a trip to see one another face to face can keep the momentum going in a long-distance relationship. Sometimes it is just good to hold one another, and taking the time to travel to one another will spice up any relationship. When you plan to meet, you can heighten your excitement by anticipating the trip to see one another.
You may even be able to surprise the person you are dating by simply showing up in their city or state. This is the element of surprise in a long-distance relationship that brings about excitement, and this type of excitement makes the relationship thrive.
The Final Verdict
You ultimately need to realize that the long-distance relationship works much better when you see how much sexual stimulation can be achieved even when you are not physically with one another. The ability to spice things up regularly with remote sex toys can be just the right amount of excitement needed to help you maintain intimacy when you are apart from one another.
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Writer & Reviewer for The Sex Toy Collective, JC Way has covered everything from Butt Plugs to Fake Cum, sprinkling his dry British wit into all things sexy.