Over the years, I have become less conservative in exploring my interests. When I started out, I was very shy. I had all these different interests, and I was convinced that there was no way my partner would understand. So, I stuck to what I considered “standard” kinks. Since getting with Master, I have found the freedom to explore anything that comes to mind.
So, I thought I would share one of them with you.
One of the kinks I kept hidden, for many years, was Breeding.
Traditionally, a breeding kink involves a Dominant male having intercourse with a submissive female with the full intent of impregnation. This generally means sex without protection and an intentional exchange of body fluids. It is considered a riskier kink (though not edge play) because bareback sex can increase your chances of a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI).
It can also increase the chances of a yeast infection or PH imbalance. The vagina is generally considered acidic and should have a PH level of 3.8-4.5. However, sperm need a PH level of 7-8.5 to thrive. During unprotected sex, the vagina’s PH level will rise to accommodate the sperm, optimizing the chance of impregnation.
Sounds great, right?
Well, it can be. But for some of us, the ph level struggles to go back down afterward. An acidic environment (with the PH of 3.8-4.5) is naturally protective. Having an imbalance can promote the growth of bacteria and lead to several different types of medical issues (i.e. Bacterial Vaginosis or Yeast Infection). So, my personal PSA is to consult a doctor if you notice things do not feel right after unprotected sex. Stay healthy and optimize your kink.
Alright. Now we can get back to the fun stuff.
Breeding, over the last couple decades, has expanded in its definition. Let’s go over some different ways to enjoy your kink.
There are a few ways that role play can be incorporated.
- Cross-Gendered Role play
Due to the expansion of role play aspects in this kink, there is less focus on the gender of those involved as well. For female/female partners, the use of a strap-on can simulate the action of breeding. There are dildos that have tubing in the center to simulate ejaculation. For male/male partners, the incorporation of other kinks, such as sissification, can make the fantasy of impregnation more realistic.
- Breeding with Birth Control
For some individuals, having a resulting pregnancy is not part of their kink. This could be due to medical factors, financial reasons, or already having children. As such, the use of birth control can help mitigate the chances of pregnancy. As with anything, I recommend talking to a licensed professional to find the best option possible for you. I also recommend researching everything for yourself. As several individuals in my family learned, the pill form of birth control actually made them more fertile. For me, I have an implant in my arm. It lasts 3 years, has minimal side effects, and I am not allergic to it. While the chance of me getting pregnant is under 1 percent, the use of birth control is a secondary preventative measure.
- Animal play
Animal play is an umbrella term for when one partner acts as an animal and one acts as a handler. Most often, breeding often uses role play of actual “bred” animals. While hudogs (i.e. human dogs) are occasionally seen, it is almost always farm animal role play. Hucows (Human Cows) are the most common. A hucow is defined as a “submissive woman who is into lactation (whether voluntarily being milked or forced lactation) and/or breeding (forced insemination). The breeding aspect is a newer addition to the Hucow kink.
You can also add objectification to this type of play. An example of this is putting a burlap bag over the “animal’s” head (which could even be labeled with “Breed Me” or other more derogatory sayings) so that the receiver becomes nothing more than a breeding machine or potential incubator.
**Animal play also gives an opportunity to play with artificial insemination as a form of breeding**
- Consent Non-Consent:
Consent Non-Consent (CNC) is another umbrella term. It is often equated to “rape play.” I do not use that term for two reasons. The first is because CNC has so many different avenues of expression. Second, consent is paramount in our community. Rape does not involve consent in any form, and I feel that it needs to keep its own definition (and implications) without convoluting consensual play.
The definition I prefer to use is “[play] between two (or more) consenting adults where one of them does unpleasant or harmful seeming things to the other, who looks as if they’re not enjoying it, or not consenting.”
Breeding can be incorporated into almost any CNC scenario that you can dream up. All the scenarios I am about to list reference “role play scenarios” in which all parties have consented to the activities involved.
- Blackmailing a co-worker, Boss/secretary dubious consent, Headmaster/student
- Hypnosis/Mind Control
- kidnapping, home invasion
- Gang Bang
It is also important to me that CNC can also be a relationship type. It is most often referred to as a Total Power Exchange (TPE). I have talked previously about my relationship with Master. He has blanket consent to do as he pleases. He allows me the option of a safe word, just in case. However, I never know what is going to happen or when. I do not negotiate our scenes. That means that every time we play, it falls under CNC. I can scream, cry, say no or stop repeatedly but the only thing that will stop the scene is the word “red.”
As I have explored Breeding more and more, the only real consistent “requirement” is sex without a condom. Everything else is up to the individual people involved and as broad as their imagination.
I find Breeding is a kink that many still find themselves shy to talk about. I have seen it kink shamed on more than one occasion. If I have learned anything in the last 15 years, it is that there is no shame in kink if consent is paramount. Never let someone tell you what you can and cannot enjoy in your dynamic.