Pet Play and Primal Play

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Rika’s Lair- Identity and Role

I hope you’ve been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  This week, I was working with a couple dealing with conflicts of identity and role. Several months ago, the woman reached out to me … [Read more...]

The Caliber Of A Fem(Dom)

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber.  It varies greatly when we get to the specific types of dominants that are desired within the community. That’s why … [Read more...]

Master Rigio of Gloriana

Rigio saw her coming through the bedroom. “Stay there.” He met her at the door when she stepped through, took her by the hand and kissed her cheek and told her how lovely she looked. Seating her in the companion chair, giving her a small whiskey, he put the cane in her hand. “I’ll be right back. Wait for me.” Lady Boldon and Iris were waiting by the door of the … [Read more...]

Customizing Your Impact Experiences

Until I began working with leather, I had no idea how much variety could be found in one simple impact implement:  the flogger. I have heard people say, "Oh, I already have a flogger.  I don't need any more."  I was one of those people once upon a time.  I didn't realize that in addition to the basic cagegories of thud and sting there was an entire range of sensation … [Read more...]