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Discovering New Kinks Through Tantric Massage

October 7, 2021 By Rose 2 Comments

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There are many physical and psychological aspects of kinks that many wait years to discover. Exploring your boundaries safely and consensually is of the utmost importance. However, finding someone open and willing to engage in excitingly erotic activities isn’t easy.

This is where tantric massage has much to offer. So what is it, how can it be used to discover new kinks, and should you try it?

What Is Tantric Massage?

The art of Tantra is centuries old. Ancient civilisations have used Tantra as a form of physical and spiritual healing, and it quickly gained a resurgence in popularity throughout the 1960s on the wave of sexual liberation. An indulgent massage makes for excellent foreplay, but tantric massage’s additional yogic and meditative qualities are excellent for exploring the body, mind and soul. So how does this relate to kinks?

Can Tantric Massage Help You Discover New Kinks?

There are numerous ways tantric massage can open you to a world of pleasurable possibilities that are just waiting to be discovered.

Creating a Safe, Consensual Environment

Expertly trained massage therapists who are well-versed in the tantric arts are masters at creating a safe space where you can openly express your sexuality. While you might keep your wildest desires to yourself most of the time, you’ll find incredible liberation in sharing your most adventurous thoughts without judgement. 

Helping You Explore Your Body

Kinks don’t often provide a direct route to sexual gratification, they’re much more nuanced than overt sexual acts. Taking the time to discover erogenous zones of the body can develop your understanding of the body. You’ll learn more about the places you like to be touched, how you like to be touched and the kind of stimulation that different types of touch can provide.

Tapping into Your Deepest Desires

In place of judgement-free enjoyment, new sensations can unlock your deepest desires for gratification. From a BDSM perspective, massage works both ways, either as a form of domination — where the masseuse or masseur is in total control of the activity — or, as submission — where the masseuse or masseur is responsible for pleasuring the dominant party through touch. In any case, you’ll be able to experiment with your partner, engaging in both roles to learn what you like most.

Opening Your Mind to New Forms of Pleasure

Being pampered and pleased is highly erotic and provides a direct route to satisfaction. For many, being tantalised and teased is equally enthralling. As you learn more about what you like, you’ll discover more things you enjoy. 

The Most Common Kinks Associated with Tantric Massage

Tantric massage is great for BDSM beginners or those looking to discover new kinks. A huge number of opportunities for different kinks emerge from engaging in a professional, authentic tantric massage. Some of the most common kinks to emerge are:

  • Orgasm Control — You can discover denying, ruining, extending or postponing orgasms through the variation of touch with an expert tantric masseuse or masseur. It relies on maintaining a high level of sexual arousal before, during or after a climax, sometimes achieved through techniques like edging.
  • Domination/Subordination — Through massage, domination and subordination are a dynamic that can emerge between two people. One person takes on the dominant role as the leader or enforcer of the activity, while the other — the subordinate party — assumes more of a pleaser or servant role.
  • Voyeurism — If you’re part of a couple, you can experience a tantric as a voyeur, watching your partner be massaged, reverse the roles and allow your partner to watch you enjoy the rapturous pleasure provided by the masseuse or masseur.
  • Feet Fetishes — The magic of the tantric touch can inspire all kinds of new, wondrous pleasures. There is an abundance of nerve endings in the feet, which makes a foot fetish one to explore through massage.
  • Lingerie — When adorned by your partner or a masseuse, the lacy fabric of lingerie can get your heart racing. It can start a new kink for you as it indicates powerful erotic intent.
  • Role Play — This can be linked to dom/sub relationships, but it can also be unrelated. You can enjoy enacting a fictitious scene with your partner, masseuse or masseur. 

Whatever your reasons for trying tantric massage, you should approach the activity with an open mind. You’re bound to discover something you enjoy!

Should You Try a Tantric Massage?

Whether you’re at the beginning of your sexual exploration journey or looking for something that will add a new, highly erotic dimension to your sexual escapades, trying a tantric massage with a professional is highly recommended. This way, you’ll learn more about the practice’s physical, mental and spiritual aspects enabling you to find more exciting and daring delights to try in the future.


Rose Colette Aston is a highly experienced tantric practitioner and holistic massage therapist. Drawing on her years of experience and training, she writes informative articles on a wide range of topics related to Tantra, massage, and other holistic well-being practices.

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This week in kink: June 7, 2021

June 4, 2021 By Desdemona 2 Comments

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Tantric BDSM

November 28, 2020 By Erica Suarez-Hillingdon 2 Comments

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You may be familiar with tantra and/or BDSM. However, as a whole concept, tantric BDSM is gaining more and more popularity.

While it’s easy to assume that tantra and BDSM are world’s apart, you may have practised tantric BDSM without even realising it. So, how do these two entities fuse together as one? In this article, we’re going to delve deeper into this exciting practice and share our ultimate tantric and BDSM tips so you and your partner can get started. 

Polarity and Presence 

While many people associate Tantra with tantric sex, its practice is rooted in spiritual meanings and the connection with the inner self. For those who participate in BDSM, it’s often assumed that pleasure is driven by dominance, submission, bondage and other experiences.

The reality is that many want to take BDSM further by understanding its link to spirituality. As an emerging practice, Tantric BDSM fuses an erotic state of consciousness to work with energy polarity.

Both Tantra and BDSM require you to be in the present moment, whether that’s performed as the giving or receiving of pleasure without focusing on achieving climax, or being fully present as the dominator for the submissive to surrender. Being present in these moments constitutes polarity – this is what creates an erotic experience.

Tips for Tantric BDSM

Want to get started with Tantric BDSM? Here are our top tantric and BDSM tips so you can create your own erotic experience.

Give or receive?

Do you prefer to give or receive? Maybe you love doing both? You don’t necessarily need to be one or the other. You can be submissive and still enjoy giving, and vice versa. Try both roles with your partner to explore what you enjoy. 

Let go of limitations

Forget any limitations regarding your sexuality or gender. These are no rules when it comes to tantric BDSM so relax and enjoy the experience without feeling any shame.

Talk beforehand

Consent plays an important part in both the practice of tantra and BDSM. Before you begin your tantric BDSM session, talk to your partner about each other’s boundaries and what you want to explore. You may also talk about your intentions – what do you want to get out of the session? Maybe you want to find new ways of pleasure or discover new ways to relax. You don’t need to make a step-by-step plan, after all this about bringing excitement into your sex life.

Trust yourself

Some people find the prospect of tantric BDSM daunting. Discomfort with your sexuality often builds up over years and it requires time to change this. Remember to have patience with yourself and to be open to exploration. Why not share your fantasies with your partner and explore them together?

Be present

Focusing on the outside world can prevent you from truly being in the moment. Tantric BDSM requires you to be very much in the present. One of the most effective ways to do this is to focus on your breath. This also helps you to tune into yourself and your partner, providing deeper spiritual healing.

Create a safe space for surrender

While it’s helpful to know your intentions for tantric BDSM, being open to all possibilities enables you to be fully present in the experience. Chasing pleasure can mean we’re not fully immersed in the practice of tantric BDSM – keep your mind open and be fully relaxed knowing you’re in a safe space with your partner.

Create a space free from distractions

A calming space, free from any distractions presents an opportunity to focus on the present. Within tantra, that’s often achieved with dimmed lighting, soft sheets and scented candles. If that helps you to get into the mood, then feel free to re-create a romantic ambience. Remember, BDSM tools are used to keep you in the present moment, as well as being a means of flowing sexual energy. 

Merging the Sexual Spectrum: The Benefits of Tantric BDSM

Tantric BDSM is a wonderful practice for anyone looking to have a little more excitement in their love life. Here are just some of the amazing benefits of a Tantric BDSM experience:

  •  Connect with your spiritual side
  • Enjoy a relaxing and refreshing experience
  • Bring some fun into your sex life
  • Form a deeper connection to your partner
  • Become more confident in the bedroom
  •  Develop more self-confidence
  • Help to unblock any sexual frustrations

Consider Using A Tantra Specialist 

Now you know how to get started with Tantric BDSM and are aware of its incredible benefits, why don’t you use a highly trained specialist to assist you in the bedroom. Karma Tantric provides the most experienced practitioners in London to help you get the very best out of your Tantric BDSM experience. Visit us now to find out more about our impeccable services.


Erica Suarez-Hillingdon is a sex therapist and expert on everything related to tantra, tantric sex, and tantric massage. She is the editor at Karma Tantric, London’s premier tantric massage agency and writes about how tantra can help men, women, and couples improve their sex lives.

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This week in kink: October 12, 2020

October 10, 2020 By Desdemona 2 Comments

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