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February 20, 2021 By Dame TylerRose. 4 Comments

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“I hate people who post their Only Fans!”

We see some version of this multiple times a day on various social sites, usually by men.

Let’s do something. Let’s replace Only Fans with other things and see if you still hate it.

“I hate people who post their Ebay store.”
“I hate people who post their Etsy store.”
“I hate people who post their Patreon page.”

Is it still a problem?

I can hear the answers now. “No, because they’re selling a product.”

Okay, let me point something out to you right now. People who have an Only Fans also are selling a product. That product is their tits, pussy, and ass. They have every right to do so.

So if you don’t whine about a Patreon page, an Etsy store, or Ebay listings, you need to quit whining about Only Fans people.

All you’re really complaining about is that you have to pay to see the pussy.

“I hate that they’re selling a paddle they made. They should let me have that for free!” — See how stupid that sounds? That’s how stupid you sound complaining that you can’t see the pussy for free.

I can hear it now. “But they spent hours making that item and should be paid for that workmanship.” Yes. Indeed. And it takes time and effort to make a decent video. They may take fifty pics before they get the one they want to post to their Only Fans.

“Yeah, but there are a lot of crappy pictures they didn’t put effort into!” someone will say. Yup. And there are a lot of crappy, overpriced floggers populating Etsy accounts. Now you’re complaining about not being able to see crappy pics for free.

You need to really look at your behavior and attitude. You are complaining because one chick out of 1000 won’t show you her pussy without payment first. You are also complaining that ANY woman dares to restrict your visual access to her body.

Reality Check — You are not entitled to view their pussy if they don’t want you to see it without paying. They are entitled to restrict those pictures to people who pay for the privilege. You have to pay a cover to get into a strip bar. You have to buy a minimum number of drinks to go into a strip bar. Only Fans is an online version of the strip bar.

If you don’t complain about people posting links for selling their melting wax, paddles, and floggers in Etsy, then you need to shut about women making ends meet through Only Fans. Maybe you should think for a moment about the times we live in and how many people are unemployed and can’t pay their bills without that Only Fans account.

Tribute is an accepted practice. That’s what an Only Fans account is. A formalized version of tribute. You don’t have to give them money if you don’t want to. There are plenty of other women on plenty of other sites who show you all the goods for free. Good god, whatever you do, don’t go to chatterbate!

Just because you’re willing to flash your dick in your avatar doesn’t mean we have to flash the pussy. That’s why you don’t see many men with an Only Fans. They flashing that shit all over the place. LOOKAMAHDICK!

And you’re just pissed off that you don’t own every woman’s nakedness.

They have every right to try to earn a living.

You…aren’t entitled to a damn thing.


TylerRose. is known as Dame Tyler in the NYC public SM/Fetish scene. 

She is an award-winning author who has written three “lifestyle”, four cartoon, and twenty seven fiction books that you can find on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/TylerRose./e/B00HCPLSP2

You can find more of her work in Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/305828

She enjoys crocheting and baking, and will no doubt die with a thesaurus open on her thigh.

Tagged With: onlyfans, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers

This week in kink: February 22, 2021

February 20, 2021 By Dexx 2 Comments

Be sure to check out PV Chat, a movie about a gambler who falls in love with a Dominatrix.

Click below to learn more about the film from Dazed!

PVT Chat: an erotic drama peeping into a scuzzy, sweet cam girl obsession
Director Ben Hozie discusses his psychosexual semi-thriller about a lonely gambler whose life is thrown into disarray when he falls for a dominatrix
Dazed | Dazed

Daily news explains that France wants to set the age of consent to 15.

This would legalize folks 18+ being able to sexually engage with minors 15 and over.

Click below to read more.

France seeks to set age of sexual consent at 15 amid growing public pressure
“An act of sexual penetration by an adult on a minor under 15 will be considered a rape."
nydailynews.com | Muri Assunção

CNN shares that Utah refused to pass a bill that would require consent be taught in sex education classes.

Click below to learn more.

Utah lawmakers reject a bill that would require teaching consent in sex education classes
A new bill in Utah that would have required students to learn about consent was shot down by lawmakers this week.
CNN | Leah Asmelash, CNN

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Tagged With: bdsm, bdsm community, bdsm relationship, bdsm scene, consent, dominatrix, fetish, kink, sex, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers

This week in kink news: February 15, 2021

February 14, 2021 By Dexx 2 Comments

Don’t miss Kink, an amazing collection of erotic stories that explores many aspects of BDSM.

Folks are saying this may be the “new 50 Shades of Grey!”

Click below to learn more from Daily Mail.com

Could Kink be the next 50 Shades of Grey? ‘Groundbreaking’ stories offers insight into BDSM | Daily Mail Online
Short story collection Kink, which was edited by R.O. Kwon and Garth Greenwell, explores submissive-dominant relationships. The anthology was released in the UK yesterday.
www.dailymail.co.uk

D1 Softball News reports that Emma Watson is a kink advocate. She raves about kinksters being the best at communication.

Click below to find out more about her views on BDSM and feminism.

Emma Watson makes amazing revelations about her sexuality!

We, at Kink Weekly, support the Sex Work Industry and sex workers.

With this being said, please check out this important article that explains the negatives around consuming free adult content from healthline.

Click below to read more!

Does It Really Matter If You Use Free Erotic Content?
The short answer? Yes, it matters a lot. Not paying for the content you use hurts the performers you enjoy, the adult industry as a whole, and ultimately you.
Healthline

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Tagged With: bdsm, bdsm community, bdsm erotica, bdsm play, bdsm relationship, bdsm scene, communication, consent, fetish, kink, negotiations, power exchange, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers

This week in kink: January 18, 2021

January 17, 2021 By Dexx 2 Comments

This week Shireen Khalil writes about Sherry Lever, a 69 year old, thriving Dominatrix.

It’s true that age is just a number!

Click below to read more of Sherry’s riveting story!

UK grandmother shares inside look at life as a 69yo dominatrix after divorce – NZ Herald
She was once a chef, but when her husband left her she embarked on a racy, new career.
NZ Herald

BDSM has gotten more exposure over the years.

Whether you like the show or not, the Netflix show, Bonding is bringing BDSM and sex work more into the public eye.

With this being said, Showbiz CheatSheet, exposes the inner workings of this series.

Click below to find out more!

‘Bonding’: A Look at the True Story Behind Netflix’s Dominatrix Comedy

yahoo lifestyle! reports that BDSM is the most popular kink with folks over 60.

BDSM is definitely not reserved for the youngsters! Anyone and everyone is welcome!

Click below to read more about these intriguing findings!

BDSM the most popular kink amongst over 60s, study claims
A new study has delved into the sex lies of the over 60’s and some of the results may surprise you.
au.lifestyle.yahoo.com

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This week in kink: November 30, 2020

November 28, 2020 By Dexx 2 Comments

We at Kink Weekly believe everything should ALWAYS be consensual including the sharing of intimate images.

In Ireland, Justice Minister Helen McEntee seeks to crimininalise the non-consensual sharing of such images often referred to as revenge porn.

She is specifically trying to enact the Harassment, Harmful Communications and Related Offences Bill, which hopefully would help reduce this non-consensual behavior.

Click below to read more from UT news!

Justice Minister Seeks to Ban Non-Consensual Sharing of Intimate Images

During the pandemic, sex workers have had to find new avenues to keep their businesses running.

Because of this, erotica humiliation and financial domination have soared on Tik Tok. These submissive clients are often referred to as “pay pigs.”

Click below to read more about this from I-D!

Meet the findom goddesses making bank from "pay pigs" on TikTok
Erotic humiliation has found a new home on your FYP, and humiliatrixes are using the app to make a living in the midst of a global economic crisis.
I-d

In need of a new podcast?

Then, check out From Tops To Bottoms that explores feminism, BDSM, sexuality, and so much more!

On this show, the hosts share their personal experiences to give listeners a better understanding of such broad, often misunderstood/misrepresented topics.

Click below to read more from thebeijinger!

Date Night China: From Tops to Bottoms is a New Podcast About Sexuality
Looking for a new podcast to get into while waiting for Season 2 of Date Night China's Podcast?
www.thebeijinger.com

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Tagged With: bdsm, consensual, femdom, feminism, fetish, financial domination, humiliation play, kink, paypigs, power exchange, queer, sex, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers, sexual safety, sexuality

This week in kink: November 23, 2020

November 22, 2020 By Dexx 2 Comments

Especially during a pandemic, it’s extremely difficult to meet other like-minded people.

Because of this, more and more folks are turning to online dating apps.

Curious about online dating? Want to know about the best kink-friendly dating platforms?

Then click below to read this informative article brought to us by yahoo! life!

6 Kinky Dating Apps to Download If BDSM Is Your Thing
Because being sexually adventurous = totally healthy and normal.
www.yahoo.com

Interested in the creepy?

Then check out this abandoned swingers club that shut its doors in 2007.

Daily Star shows us what’s leftover over from this once popping sex club.

Click below to find out more!

Inside spooky abandoned swingers club with BDSM tables and dungeons
Dom Jennings has put some creepy images together after popping into the Staffordshire building which shut its doors in 2007 – and he shows us what he stumbled across on his visits
Dailystar.co.uk | Dan Coles

Covid-19 has continued to affect most industries and the Sex Work Industry is no different!

Don’t miss Westword’s take on the current state of Denver’s Sex Work Businesses due to the pandemic.

Click below to find out more!

Rough Trade: COVID-19 Has Put Denver's BDSM Businesses in a Bind
The city's kink community has found itself in a financial bind.
Westword | Kyle Harris

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Tagged With: bdsm, fetish, kink, online dating, onlyfans, polyamory, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers, sexual fantasy, swingers

This week in kink: November 16, 2020

November 14, 2020 By Dexx 2 Comments

Most things including The Porn Industry have been altered due to the Covid-19 Crisis.

This week, New Statesman gives us the skinny on the rise of OnlyFans during the pandemic and what that means on a grander level.

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How OnlyFans became the porn industry’s great lockdown winner – and at what cost
The sex industry is booming, by which I don’t just mean the straightforward buying and selling of real-life sex. The online porn industry has grown ever larger as it has come to offer more and more extreme content, the sexualisation of entertainment and advertising continually pushes new limits, and businesses such as the high street retailer Ann Summers have successfully monetised the mainstreaming of BDSM. We are seeing this rapid growth and diversification of the sex industry partly as a consequence of the digital revolution, and partly as a consequence of business innovation. For instance, one of the pleasurable things about BDSM, from a business perspective, is that it so often demands kit. Ann Summers – whose partnership with the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise proved highly lucrative – offers a six-piece “bondage set” for £60, which includes a flogger, blindfold, ball gag, ankle cuffs, handcuffs and rope. To this could be added dozens of other items from the Ann Summers BDSM range, from multi-chain nipple clamps (£15) to hog ties (£10). At the top end of the market, Agent Provocateur has also dipped its toes into the sexual sadism market, with a £450 set of rose gold handcuffs and, for the real connoisseur, the Xenses Lilith Diamonds & Gold whip can be purchased for £4,382.22 (engraved initials optional). Who knew sexual liberation could be so profitable? The Covid-19 crisis has accelerated this commercialisation of sexual intimacy, with one of the great winners of the past six months being the British-owned tech company OnlyFans, a platform that allows “creators” (overwhelmingly women) to earn money by giving “users” (overwhelmingly men) subscription access to online content, most of which is pornographic. OnlyFans offers what should best be understood as the “girlfriend experience” of porn. Successful creators sell not just explicit content, but also the impression of authentic personality. Creators are expected to message users privately, and perhaps remember their birthdays, or their children’s names, thus offering the illusion of intimacy. OnlyFans provides temporary relief, not only from sexual frustration, but also loneliness, which is a key reason for its lockdown success. [see also: How the rich and famous stole OnlyFans from sex workers] Every now and again, a tweet by a previously unknown OnlyFans creator will go viral, as she (always she) shares photos of the house she has been able to buy “thanks to OnlyFans”. But as the blogger Thomas Hollands has found in his detailed analysis of the OnlyFans model, such rags-to-riches cases are unusual. According to Hollands’s interpretation of the data, most of the women on the platform probably make a loss, given the amount of time they spend creating content and engaging with users. The median creator attracts only 30 subscribers, but she carries just as much risk of public exposure and harassment as her more successful counterparts. The same amount of effort goes in, but a very different level of reward comes out. The distribution of income on OnlyFans is highly unequal, with the top 1 per cent of creators making 33 per cent of the money. Using the Gini index – a standard measure of economic inequality – Hollands finds OnlyFans to be more unequal than South Africa, the most unequal country in the world. The tiny minority of creators who do well on the platform are mostly celebrities already, meaning the women who post “thanks to OnlyFans” success stories on social media are not representative of ordinary creators, but are rather more like those rare punters who walk out of a casino as millionaires, having put it all on red. We shouldn’t be surprised by this. OnlyFans depends upon the commodification of sexual intimacy. It does not profit from promoting the well-being of its users or creators, but rather from encouraging growth: more content, more subscriptions, more time spent on the site. The historian David Courtwright has coined the term “limbic capitalism” to describe a technologically advanced but socially regressive business system in which global industries, often with the help of complicit governments and criminal organisations, encourage excessive consumption and addiction. They do so by targeting the limbic system, the part of the brain responsible for feeling… Limbic capitalism is the reason the most successful apps are brightly coloured like fresh fruit and glint like water. Our primitive brains helplessly seek out the stimuli we have evolved to be attracted to, and the beneficiaries of limbic capitalism have become wise to these instincts, learning over time how best to capture them. Junk food, gambling, video games, smoking, opioids, all of these tap into our longing for nourishment, excitement and pleasure, but do so while draining the consumer of health, happiness and – most importantly – money. The sex industry is the ultimate form of limbic capitalism, feeding not only on our desire for sex, but sometimes also on our desires for novelty or companionship or self-harm or the degradation of other people. Few consumers will be truly unaware of the abuses that go on within the sex industry, but how many are aware of the ways in which the industry manipulates not only its workers, but also its consumers? It is not by chance, for instance, that one particular iteration of the rise of limbic capitalism in the form of BDSM porn has coincided with a rise in women reporting unwanted acts of sexual aggression such as choking. Algorithms that push consumers towards ever more novel, ever more addictive content are designed to produce profit, not happiness. Which is why we should always ask, when faced with any new sexual fashion or product: why do I really desire this? And, in the end, cui bono?
www.newstatesman.com

Dutch News reports that all non-consensual sexual acts will now be considered rape.

In our opinion this is great news because rape and/or molestation can be so much more than violent sexual acts and/or attempts. Rape and molestation truly come down to non-consensual sexual behavior.

This is definitely a step in the right direction. Click below to find out more!

All non-consensual sex to be classed as rape in new law

For so many BDSM can help with PTSD, anxiety, OCD, etc.

This week, Huff Post brings us a story about how Kate O’Kelly used BDSM to take control of her life after her assault.

Click below to learn more about this powerful story!

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Tagged With: anxiety, bdsm, bdsm healing, bdsm play, bdsm relationship, bdsm scene, boundaries, consent, fetish, kink, ocd, onlyfans, porn, pornhub, ptsd, rape, rape culture, sex, sex work, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers

This week in kink: November 9, 2020

November 7, 2020 By Dexx 2 Comments

The pandemic has affetced so many businesses, events, and local hang outs.

With this being said, more queer and alt places are being forced to close and/or adjust their operating protocols.

Click below to read a riveting article on this matter brought to us by Reader!

Gay bathhouses were barely surviving. And then came COVID-19.
Can these queer havens survive another pandemic?
Chicago Reader | Adam M. Rhodes

Sadly, being a kinkster hasn’t been widely accepted yet. Many still remain igorant to how much kink and BDSM is rooted in consent, communication, and honoring boundaries.

Jerry Falwell Jr. was forced to resign recently from his leadership role at Liberty University due to kink-shaming.

Click below to find out more from Progressive Secular Humanist!

Jerry Falwell Jr. Sues Liberty University After Being Kink-Shamed And Forced To Resign

Foot fetishes are booming in India’s virtual spaces.

Sex workers post foot pictures and conduct live streaming foot shows for clients.

Into foot fetishes? Curious about them?

Then definitely check out this interesting article from ThePrint!

Dirty, groomed or bare — foot fetish now a hot business in India with ‘goddesses’ & ‘slaves’

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Tagged With: bdsm, boundaries, communication, consent, fetish, foot fetish, kink, LGBTQ, negotiation, queer, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers

This week in kink news: October 26, 2020

October 24, 2020 By Dexx 2 Comments

Don’t miss the riveting story of how Ms. Vivienne became a dominatrix.

She gets real and personal when sharing her story. Furthermore, she explains her view of sex work and how it has changed her life for the better.

Click below to read more from The Independent!

I became a financial dominatrix because I couldn't afford my insulin
In the year I’ve been in the industry, I’ve learned a lot about myself, my values, goals, and interests. My mom knows. I’ve become a better, more emotionally intelligent person. And I understand men in a much better way I did before
The Independent

Curous to learn the top five sexual fantasies amidst the general public?

Articles like this can help us see that we aren’t as “demented” as we may think we are, and that we aren’t as alone as we may think we are either.

Click below to learn more from News Patrolling!

5 Most Common Sexual Fantasies

Upscale, NY, sex club decides to have a Black Death-themed Halloween party.

We, here at Kink Weekly, know that everyone has their own comfortability regarding quaratine practices.

Decide for youself about this party by reading Oli Coleman’s article!

https://pagesix.com/2020/10/12/upscale-sex-club-snctm-plots-black-death-themed-halloween-party/


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Tagged With: bdsm, boundaries, consent, dominatrix, ethical non-monogamy, fetish, kink, orgy, polyamory, power exchange, sex, sex club, Sex Work Community, sex workers, sexual fantasy, submission

This week in kink: October 19, 2020

October 17, 2020 By Dexx 2 Comments

Everyone has been affected in some way by the pandemic!

Click below to learn how Jumbo’s Clown Room dancers in East LA are making the most of these trying times by offering virtual shows!

This article is brough to us by yahoo! news. Check out this empowering story now!

How out-of-work strippers made their show virtual and are 'taking the power back'
With their club closed, dancers from the East Hollywood hipster spot Jumbo's Clown Room form a collective and launch a successful virtual show.
www.yahoo.com

Pornhub launches “Not My Job” campaign to introduce their new sex toy line.

Their campaign is designed to advocate for their new line in a light, comical way by showing that household items are not the best option when it comes to finding ways to play.

Their new sex toys are sure to give everyone lots of interesting things to play with while we continue to be in our homes more than ever!

Click below to read more! This riveting article is brought to us by Hypebeast.

Pornhub Launches "Not My Job" Campaign to Introduce New Sex Toy Line
"It’s time to give household items a break once and for all."
HYPEBEAST

Curious about exploring BDSM with your partner?

This week Well + Good gives four essential tips on how to bring kink into your relationship.

This article is littered with communication and interpersonal tips.

Click below to read more!

4 Tips For Proudly Introducing Kink Into Your Relationship, According to a Sexologist

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Tagged With: bdsm, bdsm play, boundaries, communication, erotic dancer, erotic photography, fetish, kink, sex, sex toys, Sex Work Community, sex worker rights, sex workers, sexual expression, sexual fantasy, stripper

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