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This week in kink: September 27, 2021

September 23, 2021 By Dexx 2 Comments

Woman uses man as a chair in viral video!

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Pro Domme tells couples when to have sex!

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PsyPost says that kinksters have higher pain thresholds!

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People who partake in BDSM have higher pain thresholds, according to new research

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The Pursuit Of Peak Sexuality

August 19, 2021 By SafferMaster 4 Comments

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A while back while looking for my ideal partner, I wrote a piece called “I did the math”. The writing examined the notion that just on the basis of numbers, that there were at the time, about 1200 ideal possible candidates for me just on Fetlife. Out of that writing, I found my perfect partner who was literally “made for me”, or as she put it, my “…Fairy Godmother did an excellent job”.

Now that we have been together for 3 years, and now that we are quite literally having mind blowing sex every day, I thought I would examine a different question. That being related to our pursuit of peak sexual experiences.

This is much harder to quantify, in that there is no real data to reference, but by inference, let me try to determine how many of us are in fact, engaged in regular mind-blowing sex approaching peak sexuality.

First let’s define what mind-blowing sex is. For us, it is entirely a function of our kink dynamic and that we are in a 24/7 TPE where, over the past three years, we have distilled our sexual encounters to about 45 minutes to an hour of scintillating hot sex every time. We like to think that we have created pure hotness that is the distillation of a 3-years inquiry into what gets us off. Now we are a Sensual Sadist and a Sensual Masochist living a 24/7 TPE lifestyle. She is my collared 3-hole slut. We have had sex practically every day that started with and includes an intense spanking that leaves her ass bright red, with her cane marks from the weekend showing up as highlights. Beyond that there are some other aspects that make it hot. We are deeply engaged in hypnokink (more later) and she is being trained to have a “mouthgasm”. In addition to both of us giving the other oral, there is also analingus in both directions and there is a lot of ass fucking. In fact, when we finally get to climax, we feel as if we are quite literally one creature. Think about the creatures in the movie “Avatar” that join electrically and share the same brain. When we climax together, me fucking her ass hard after lighting it up and brining her to orgasm with my mouth and finger, and after she has brought me close to climax with her tongue on my ass and her one hand holding my balls tight while she strokes me with her other hand, the electrical energy is palpable. It is as if we are in the Matrix.

So that is the sex, but what happens after must be taken into account as well. We are both completely used up and need a while to recover. We are both in a lingering trance state, her a subby trance and me a Dommy trance out of that encounter. All we can do is hold hands and smile at each other. No words are possible or relevant.

So on to the examination.

First, I make the assumption that only kinksters can actually have ridiculously hot sex. You might quibble with this assertion, but for the sake of argument, accept it as what’s so. As a result, we can eliminate everyone who is not a kinkster. According to a 2005 survey by Durex, 36% of Americans use kinky toys during sex, vs the 65% of university students that dream about being tied up, that from a 1999 study.

So, the current US population is around 330 million, which means that about 118.8 million are engaged in kink.

The second point of elimination is the question of simultaneous orgasms. I am using this as a criterion because for us, that single moment is the essence of pure hotness. According to a survey conducted by “Uncovering Intimacy”, they determined that only 4% of couples experience simultaneous orgasms every time.

So that means that only 4,752,000 kinksters are experiencing multiple orgasms.

In essence this means that only 1.44% of people in the US are having both kinky hot sex and multiple orgasms. A rare group.

With that established, the question as to what is occurring arises. Let’s examine the chemistry. Being with my partner and seeing her kneel for me ‘…unleashes a flood of neurochemicals including testosterone, oxytocin, dopamine, and norepinephrine that have the impact of amping up feelings of tenderness and attraction. Meanwhile, serotonin levels drop, and deep in the reptilian brain, the caudate nucleus, associated with hunting and prey, lights up. This creates a “Herculean mating urge” as an impact of being drenched in chemical that bestow focus, stamina and vigor driven by the motivation engine of the brain’ (Fisher).

We quite clearly devolve into our most base animal natures as we experience screaming simultaneous orgasms. We are left joined and panting as we come back to earth.

This is all very well, but how does it translate into reproducible practice for the average person? This is a much harder question to answer because there are just so many variables to consider.

First of all, I did a bunch of work for like 4 years really examining what it was I was seeking. At the same time, I explored all aspects of my kink as a sadist. I was lucky enough to have an array of partners, submissive women, who challenged me to explore myself fully. Then, when I was clear about what I wanted, I began to search for whom I wanted to explore my sexuality with. When I found Lady Petra, she was in her own inquiry, and she did a lot of personal searching and self-examination as she asessed her own motivations for well over a year. At some point during that year, we implemented a daily maintenance spanking routine, which had the impact of accelerating our inquiry, and creating a very hot sexual scene that occurred daily out of that spanking. This was at the same time massively enjoyable on one hand and on the other, Lady Petra was able to explore herself as a masochist. She did this by examining her response to different implements and intensities. That inquiry revealed that with the correct implement, the heavy flogger, and the correct delivery, hard rhythmic strokes for an extended period of time, she began to experience intense arousal and even orgasm. On a daily basis we played hard. I like to say that we have over 1,000 iterations of our inquiry so far.

What was revealed to us in our inquiry was the key to our search for real intimacy. And it was not until we were both willing to truly be vulnerable that we were ablet to experience that “Kundalini Awakening”, and it was only after that, fully two years into our dynamic that this experience started to occur in a very predictable way. Prior to that, the experience would occasionally occur, but in a more random fashion even though we were having hot kinky sex every day.

In part, our recent new sexual freedom is a function of our Anal April experience where Lady Petra was in virtual chastity for a month, during which time we only had anal sex every day, for the month. That experience opened up her relatedness to has ass as a sex organ.

Add to that the Hypnokink we are employing as a way to begin our scenes, and you have the formula for reachable nirvana level peak sexuality.

For us it has been a multiyear pursuit and now, with experience, skills, honed kinks and complete trust between us, the access we have to peak sexuality is very real. Our experience has been described by practitioners of Tantra as quite remarkable and approaching a state of cosmic energy, here is what one such educator, Mystic Chick, had to say:

”When you get into the space you [are] in with Lady Petra during that passage, it became an intertwining of energies. But then it evolved into it’s own living, energetic being. When you come together in that way, you are creating a special type of magic. It feeds and inspires others by contributing to the Collective Unconscious. This impacts other’s encounters on a very subliminal level. This type of energetic play can be healing for yourselves and others This is because when you two are sexually engaged in this manner, the chakras are open and Shakti (kundalini) is flowing freely. Shakti is the creative force that puts you in touch with cosmic energy (which may be why you described your encounter with LP as “alien”)…”

To create this experience in an even more predictable manner, we recently began to practice Hypnokink as I mentioned.

ECSTASY – noun

– an overwhelming feeling of great happiness of joyful excitement “there was a look of ecstasy on her face”

– an emotional or religious frenzy or trance-like state, originally one involving an experience of mystic self-transcendence

– an overpowering emotion or exaltation: a state of sudden, intense feeling

Origin:

– First recorded in 1350–1400; Middle English extasie, from Middle French, from Medieval Latin extasis, from Greek ékstasis “displacement, trance,” equivalent to ek- ec- + stásis stasis

Synonym Study for Ecstasy

– Ecstasy, rapture, transport, exaltation share a sense of being taken or moved out of one’s “self” or one’s normal state and entering a state of intensified or heightened feeling. Ecstasy suggests an intensification of emotion so powerful as to produce a trancelike dissociation from all but the single overpowering feeling: an ecstasy of rage, grief, love. Rapture shares the power of ecstasy but most often refers to an elevated sensation of bliss or delight, either carnal or spiritual: the rapture of first love. Transport, somewhat less extreme than either ecstasy or rapture, implies a strength of feeling that results in expression of some kind: They jumped up and down in a transport of delight. Exaltation refers to a heady sense of personal well-being so powerful that one is lifted above normal emotional levels and above normal people: wild exaltation at having finally broken the record.

This particular definition is the most accurate in describing our experience:

– “Ecstasy suggests an intensification of emotion so powerful as to produce a trancelike dissociation from all but the single overpowering feeling”

As I noted earlier, we find exploring our kink akin to being in a hypnotic trance state. It’s true, there is ritual and structure to our sceneing that creates a hypnotic context that we sink into and enjoy as if we are in a trance state. We describe the experience of our scenes as if we have unlocked the Master Level of the “game”. The sex is amazing, and quite far beyond what either of us thought sex was for all those years.

Inside of the hypnosis context, we created the notion of a “mouthgasm”, which we defined as an orgasm that occurs when we engage in deep throat oral sex. Now there is some uncertainty about if she would have an orgasm in her mind caused by being throat fucked, or if she would have an orgasm in her pussy as stimulated by being deeply throat fucked. School is not out on that one yet. The very idea itself was designed to make her into a real 3-hole whore.

To set up the scene, she began mouthgasm training by using an Hitachi Wand to bring herself to the very edge of orgasm before I plunge my cock down her throat and only when my cock is all the way down her throat does she allow herself to cum. That is by using the Hitachi through the orgasm.

The intention is to gradually stop using the Hitachi as my cock entered her mouth to see if she will orgasm with the stimulus of being deep throat fucked. At this stage of her training, she still needs the stimulus of the Hitachi to achieve orgasm.

Now we are onto Phase two. We are being guided in our exploration of kink hypnosis with the help of a friend who practices the art.

The first step is to put her into an hypnotic trance and see where that goes.

This means that I am getting used to hypnotizing her. And she is getting used to being hypnotized. The skill I am developing at induction is gradually making it easier to hypnotize her. At the moment she is being hypnotized to experience any touch by me to be Hitachi-like in the way she experiences it. We started by coaching her to feel my fingertips “vibrating with the power of the Hitachi” as I stroke her neck, arms, back and breasts.

Next, she is being coached to feel that same sense of vibration from my cock as it enters her throat and finally she is being trained to cum with the trigger of deep throat penetration by my vibrating cock along with a simultaneous verbal prompt.

Over time she will come to accept that deep throat penetration as a trigger for orgasm, and we can begin to remove the Hitachi from the equation.

Then she will be a 3-hole-whore in reality.

She is already experiencing mind blowing sexual ecstasy. Her expanding self-expression as a sexual creature has given her access to a new level of climactic pleasure.

And its only the beginning of the journey.

My point is that we are on an inquiry of exploring how far we can take our sexuality and we have had the experience of regularly achieving this unexpected outcome that quite honestly approaches nirvana.

While I cannot claim that we have indeed achieve Peak Sexuality, we are very happily well along the path.

References:

https://aeon.co/essays/tantric-sex-promises-healthy-bliss-what-does-the-science-say https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/simultaneous-orgasm-survey-results/

You can access the coaching services offered by Lady Petra Playground by reaching out for an initial conversation- LadyPetraPlaground@gmail.com

SafferMaster and Lady Petra offer Kink Relationship Coaching with online, group, and personal coaching options.

Lady Petra and SafferMaster also produce the Kinky cocktail Hour podcast available on all podcast platforms and here: https://kinkycocktailhour.buzzsprout.com/

This week in kink news: July 12, 2021

July 8, 2021 By Dexx 2 Comments

Don’t miss reading about a four day long, Covid-compliant sex festival in England!

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Hundreds of people attend “covid compliant” four-day long sex festival in Lincolnshire

Be sure to check out Caroline’s story of becoming an orgasm coach from Echo!

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Tune in to see if Netflix’s Bonding has been renewed or canceled!

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This week in kink: July 5, 2021

July 5, 2021 By Dexx 2 Comments

Learn about the spicy Locked Down sex position from The Sun!

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Discover the inner workings of a Domme and her sub!

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This week in kink: June 7, 2021

June 4, 2021 By Dexx 2 Comments

Check out this controversial article on why BDSM and kink should not be included in Pride.

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Into orgasm denial? Orgasm control?

Consensually “forcing” an orgasm?

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The Impact of Sex Work on Women’s Romantic Relationships

May 14, 2021 By Maze 3 Comments

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The idea of having a long-term relationship with a sex worker can be intimidating in many ways. Besides regular dating problems every couple has, you have to face the fact that the person you love is sharing their body with other people. Apart from that, there is a social stigma on everyone who makes money with sex.

Research conducted in 2015 showed that about 78% of women reported that overall sex work affected their relationships in a negative way. About 77% of all sex workers decided to stay single due to their job. So is dating a sex worker possible? Yes! However, choosing this kind of life can bring many challenges. Here you will find some of the most important things that can impact your relationship when you decide to pursue a sex working career.

Jealousy

It may come as no surprise, but the main problem in dating a sex worker is jealousy. Many people can’t accept sharing their partner with other people. It is difficult for them to see sex work as regular work, like any other. Society still perceives sex as an intimate thing you should only do when you are in a long-term relationship or after marriage. The hardest part for any sex worker is coming out and being honest about what they do for a living. Nevertheless, we have to take into consideration that in our society, even purchasing from stores like The Adult Toy Shop is sometimes frowned upon.

The first reaction after you tell your date that you are a sex worker may be really hard. It’s tough to find people who will react positively. It often leads to ending the whole relationship, fights, and slut-shaming. Problems often arise when the partner has issues with the entire nature of the job.

On the other hand, not every sex work is seen identically. Working as a cam girl or a stripper isn’t as “big of a deal” as having intercourse with clients. More people can accept their partner selling their nude photos or videos anonymously than them meeting clients in person.

Jealousy is one of the reasons many sex workers decide on having a relationship with other sex workers or non-monogamous people. Open relationships will be more effective, as the other person will be free to sleep with other people too.

Pragmatic Issues

It is a common belief that sex workers won’t have sex with their partners. It may seem logical for some people, as most of us finish the job and do different things in our free time. It may be probably true for some sex workers, but many feel differently doing it with clients and with their partners. The emotional bond can change the whole nature of sex, as you feel close both physically and mentally.

Apart from that, not many sex workers work every day. Being your own boss allows you to choose where and when you want to work. Some women sex workers said that their work enabled them to experience much deeper intimacy with their partner and that it increased their self-esteem and confidence, resulting in a much bigger sex drive.

Additionally, some sex workers say that many people start projecting their fantasies on them after finding out about their job and start treating them like sex workers instead of dates. They tend not to be serious about the relationship.

Dishonesty

Many sex workers generally feel that they can’t be honest about their jobs. Lying to a partner is one of the worst things, and it can wreck your relationship. They have to lie daily to strangers that ask them what kind of job they have. Often they lie to their families, so the last thing they may want is to lie to their other half. It can cause fights, distrust, and create barriers, so you won’t be able to feel safe anymore.

Starting a new relationship can be especially difficult, as being a female sex worker has a huge stigma. People make a lot of assumptions about dating sex workers, from expecting various diseases to drugs and lack of self-worth. Sex workers are afraid that there is too much judgment, and it may be to big of baggage to handle in the first few weeks or months of a relationship.

The Bottom Line

Being a sex worker is challenging, and adding relationships to the equation can create a destructive mix. The whole nature of sex work will always impact every couple, so many sex workers decide to stay single for life or date only other sex workers.

Fortunately, you can find happy couples when a partner is very accepting of the job and doesn’t project their fears on their relationship. However, it requires lots of self-confidence, empathy, and open-mindedness, which not many people have. As always, communication and honesty are everything, and it works both ways. Finding a good person is not as easy as some may think!

Maze is a lifestyle writer, dominant in life, submissive in other activities. She participates in shibari workshops and works as a BDSM model for both workshops and photoshoots. Her writing focuses on positive sexuality, and her goal is to educate people on safe sex, kinks, and accepting your whole personality. Maze wants to see a world where no one will be frowned upon for expressing themselves or their hobbies.

Exploring Casual Sex While Being Demisexual

May 6, 2021 By Maze 3 Comments

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Sexuality is a broad spectrum. Everyone has different preferences regarding dating and being intimate with others, but some groups of people show certain common grounds. Many of them don’t necessarily feel the need to be labeled, but being part of a group can help us find our own voice for many of us.

Labeling various aspects of our sexuality can help us identify our needs and desires and share them with the community. It allows us to find other people like ourselves. However, some preferences may be confusing even to people that define themselves as those.

What exactly is demisexuality? Can demisexuals enjoy casual encounters? How to manage your physical craving without a long-term relationship? Here, you will find some information that will hopefully help you answer those questions.

Demisexuality

Humans are sexual beings. The vast majority enjoys various kinds of sex, as it is no longer just a matter of procreation but a healthy way to relieve stress, have fun, experiment with new feelings, etc. While some can enjoy masturbation, their silicon wives, or random sex with strangers, not all people can and want to do those things.

Demisexuality is one of the sexual orientations where people feel sexual attraction to someone only when they have an emotional bond with that person. At the same time, they can be gay, straight, pan, bi, and they may have any gender identity.

Contrary to some beliefs, the bond demisexual people need to enjoy sexual encounters doesn’t need to be love or romance. For many of them, friendship will be more than enough.

Right now, you may think, “but don’t many of us wait to have intimate relationships after we create some bond?” Yes, but for demi people, it’s not about choice. They don’t do it because they want to, but because they won’t feel sexual attraction until after they befriend someone. They are not simply people who decide to date someone before having sex.

Casual Encounters

Seeing their friends hooking up in bars and having a good time with total strangers may be annoying for demi people. Most people need physical closeness from time to time, but some don’t want to engage in serious relationships.

Being the only one who goes to a party with friends and goes back alone isn’t nice. You never have any wild, fun stories to tell in the morning, and you can feel like you are too picky and that your friends perceive you as a prude. Nevertheless, have you ever had casual sex that you enjoyed? If you didn’t have casual sex at all, do you want to?

If the answer is “no,” then you don’t have anything to feel weird about. Sex with strangers, especially after alcohol, can be really awkward, and lots of people lie that it was wonderful, just to feel better. You can always fulfill your physical needs in different ways. Doing it by yourself has many benefits, including getting to know your own body.

Friends With Benefits

Friends with benefits is a fantastic way to have someone you can be close to with no strings attached. It is also a perfect arrangement for demis. Platonic friendship or love is also the connection that may allow demisexual people to have good sex without long-term relationships.

If you don’t want to ruin your social circles, you can look up people on the Internet. There are sites designed especially for looking for friends with benefits, and putting your sexual preferences on your profile page can help you avoid people that want something different.

Having a platonic sexual relationship will allow you to explore your sexual side without distractions and fights that usually couples have. You can try various things and techniques and see what you are into.

However, there is a tricky part of the FwB relationship that people tend to forget. If you want it to work, you have to remember that you are not a couple. It can get really awkward if one person “catches” feelings and the other one doesn’t. You have to establish clear ground rules of the arrangement and follow them thoroughly.

The Bottom Line

Demisexual people will indeed have a harder time finding relationships with no strings than others. However, in most cases, it can be done. There is no reason for demisexual people to be abstinent when dating is out of the question. You can have sex for any reason, from physical need to the mental need of closeness. It is important to take your time and find someone you will have a good time with, so you won’t end up hurt or in an uncomfortable situation.

Remember that you don’t have to do things that make you feel awkward just because other people are doing this. You can take everything at your own pace. Embracing your sexuality can help you feel better and accept yourself just the way you are.

Erotica: The Recording Session

May 6, 2021 By Christmas Bunny 2 Comments

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Jamie sighed and rested her temple against her thumbs for a moment, glad the singer’s booth didn’t have a line of sight to the booth. Fucking singers, man. They all pranced in here thinking they could knock out a vocal track in under half an hour, surprised when their time stretched out closer to five hours. This one had been particularly frustrating, though they had just hit the two hour mark. She fully expected to need to put in several more today on this project, just working with this singer. She smirked slightly as she acknowledged the time, knowing her pay for the day would be quite sufficient to soothe the headache, not to mention the extra enjoyment she got from the consensual degradation they were quite literally paying her for.

She could almost do this in her sleep. Pressing the intercom button as she cringed to hear the out-of-tune pitches coming out of that girl’s mouth, she used her driest tone of voice, “I’m going to start this section over and we’re both going to pretend you never made those sounds.” She released the button momentarily for effect, then slowly levered a fingernail down on it again, “In fact, just do it twenty more times. Maybe then I’ll get some usable material.”

She smiled, queuing up the other tracks again for a few more runs, crossing her legs to enjoy the tingle she got from getting to be totally honest for a living. She made some corrections and helpful coaching suggestions between takes, since she couldn’t just give the degradation the whole time, even though her excellent reputation might be able to take the heat that might bring. After the seventh, she engaged the intercom again. “Well, look at that, you managed it in seven. Here I thought we’d need twenty. I’ve pulled the best and inserted it into the full audio file. Come on out and have a listen.” Jamie considered tossing a “good job” but after two hours and not even being through the second verse, figured it wouldn’t come off as sincere anyhow. Fair enough. It wouldn’t have been.

Barbie emerged from the booth. The name truly fit. She had blonde hair, blue eyes, and a body that would definitely be marketable from a producer’s standpoint. She could have dressed casually for a studio session, jeans or yoga pants, but she wore a tiny lightweight skirt that barely flared past the crease in her assumably pert derriere paired with a shirt cut low enough to emphasize her generous breasts. She also happened to be just about the sweetest client who’d ever come in for a session, with plenty of someone’s money to spend. Maybe Daddy, who knew? She had patiently put up with all of Jamie’s brusque prodding and blunt critiques, continuing to take notes and improve. She came out and took a seat on the couch for the listen-through. The pitches were all working finally, but Jamie knew the issue was something else. The song was definitely looking to sell sex, and it was a barely covered innuendo that fit the girl’s body and outfit, but didn’t seem to match her personality.

“May I ask a personal question?” Jamie inquired. At Barbie’s bubbly nod, she continued. “How are you feeling about this? I usually recommend clients produce pieces that fit their personalities, but I get the impression this one may not quite fit you. Are you sure this is the direction you’re wanting to go?”

Barbie scootched forward on the couch, exposing more of her bare legs, cocking her head slightly. “I’m not certain I understand what you mean,” she said.

Jamie felt a little uncomfortable having to explain, but pushed ahead anyhow. She opened with her characteristic straightfowardness. “This song is very sexual,” she said slowly and carefully, almost as if speaking to a child, somehow feeling as if she were explaining sex to someone who really ought to know what it is. “The energy I feel from you,” she continued, waving her hand vaguely in the air to elaborate, “is more of a bubbly, happy energy. This song lacks a major piece it needs to give it the punch you’re looking for. You need to tap into a whole different kind of energy if this is the kind of thing you’re looking to convey. It needs to drip sex, and every sound you make should be steeped in it. Breathing should sound like moans or pants, and your voice should have moments where it’s a little breathy from sexual excitement.”

Barbie’s bubbly expression shifted a bit to something Jamie couldn’t quite get a read on. Not anger, but, “So you’re saying I should be more sexual?” Barbie’s words interrupted Jamie’s attempts at reading her expression. Somehow, she’d slowed down her arm movement, seeming a bit lazier. The voice had dropped as well, sounding a little huskier.

Jamie laughed. “Well don’t waste it on me, if you’ve got it.” It sounded slightly dismissive, intentionally. “Take it to the booth and see if you can get it there.” She turned back to the sound board, making adjustments for the next take, when she caught a glimpse of Barbie in her peripherals. She was bending over next to the couch, straight legged, unbuckling her strappy sandals. It was suddenly obvious to Jamie that Barbie wasn’t wearing any panties, so she took a moment to enjoy the view of the now confirmed as pert derriere and what appeared to be a rather pinkened and aroused bare cunt. Barbie straightened slowly after slipping off her shoes, tossing her hair back and meeting Jamie’s eyes with a hint of challenge. Jamie didn’t even try to pretend she hadn’t been watching. Dismissive and degrading were clearly working for both of them.

Barbie walked back to the vocal booth, though to Jamie’s mind, walking wasn’t an entirely sufficient word to express the way she moved. It was almost a glide, but rolling hips and dragging toes somehow made breasts and ass more prominent and noticeable. She shut the door of the booth and positioned herself in front of the mic again. Jamie queued up the musical tracks and started another take, only to stop it before the first verse was done. She gleefully poked the intercom button with her middle finger. “If you’re going to do this without the slut shoes, I’m going to have to adjust your mic to the new height, otherwise the sound quality isn’t going to match. Either that, or you’re going to need to put them back on if you don’t want to sit on the stool.”

Barbie spoke her response into the microphone, requesting the adjustment. Jamie headed back and stepped into the booth with the singer, realizing the buxom blonde was an inch shorter than her without the heels. Barbie took a linger step backwards to allow Jamie space to step in to make the adjustments, brushing what Jamie suddenly realized were erect nipples casually across her arm with the movement. Jamie smirked to herself, knowing it was likely a calculated move. This session was beginning to get a lot more interesting. She made the adjustments to the equipment and stepped backwards to allow Barbie to move in and do a height check, nipples magically brushing her again. With everything lining up, Jamie headed back to the booth, hoping to utilize some of that sexual tension Barbie had started building to lay down a track they’d both be pleased with.

They took it from the top. “Look, you’re oozing sex at me now, and that’s awesome,” Jamie said bluntly into her board mic, “but I want you to channel all of that into this song. Whatever you need in your head to get it there is up to you, I’m just here to get the best performance out of you we can possibly get.”

Jamie had already hit record when Barbie responded in a breathy voice, dripping with sexual invitation as requested, “You can’t tell me you didn’t watch every second of my bare pussy when you had the chance. You can tell all those things you’ve said have me aroused.” Perfect. She’d clip that later for the unedited outro that only appeared on the album track.

Too bad the sing through was a starting point rather than the final sex-filled sound she wanted. She sighed. Clearly this one required a little more hand-on encouragement than she usually preferred. Poking the button again, she made sure to add a smidge of disdain. “Whatever you’re thinking clearly isn’t good enough. Apparently even throwing yourself at me like a common slut isn’t good enough. Now we’re going to try it my way.” She hit record on her way past, grabbed the stool and marched it back to the booth. She gestured dismissively to indicate Barbie move and placed the stool in front of the microphone.

“Sit, slut,” she commanded. Barbie’s eyes glowed almost luminously and she obediently complied. “Nipples,” Jamie said, gesturing vaguely. Barbie slid her hands up and pinched them, hard. Interesting, Jamie mused, since she wasn’t really giving much command. They were already erect, and the pinching was likely quite enjoyable to her, given her gasps and moans. “How slutty are you, really?” Jamie asked. “Do you want to show me?” Barbie moaned with full throat and pulled her shirt off, the nipples on beautiful breasts fully erect and straining. She looked up with a coy expression, fluttering eyelashes as she slid the hem of her skirt over her thighs to expose that bare cunt. She slowly spread her legs to reveal that it was even more flushed than before, swollen and dark pink, eager little clit just as erect as the nipples. Jamie could see the wetness glistening there, and a part of her longed to slide hands over the sensitive flesh. She stood watching dispassionately, though. Clearly the game was in the disinterest, and Jamie could play that game like a champ.

“Do you want to touch yourself?” she asked, sounding almost bored by the thought. Barbie breathed a yes. “Don’t you dare,” Jame snapped. She could visibly see Barbie’s cunt swell and tremble at the words. “I don’t want your filthy cunt juice on the equipment. Now let’s try it again. I’d hate to have to open the studio door and let the other execs see what a complete whore you are. Maybe if you’re good I’ll let you come afterwards.” She stalked back to the booth, leaving the vocal door open so she could see Barbie half-naked and spread on the stool.

The take was perfect. Jamie knew it would be. She didn’t tell Barbie via intercom, though. She walked back to the booth and asked what reward she wanted for being such a good girl. Turns out she got paid to sit on Barbie’s face and finger that beautiful sopping wet cunt. Ain’t showbiz grand?

Good Ways To Spice Things Up If You’re Struggling In The Bedroom

May 1, 2021 By Grace Murphy 2 Comments

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Most people don’t like to freely admit when they’re having trouble in the bedroom. Such a confession is wrongly seen as a weakness to be ashamed of, so many just stay quiet and hope that things improve on their own. Unfortunately, it’s rare that such problems actually get better without any intervention.

The good news is that there are plenty of ways to improve your performance in the bedroom; you just need to know what they are. This guide lists four of the ways you can improve your skills and spice things up after hours, ensuring that you never have a bad night in bed again.

Improve Your Physical Strength

You don’t need to be a gym buff to win over girls and satisfy them in the bedroom. However, spending more time working on your body could help you perform better when the time comes.

Sometimes, it’s easy to forget that sex can be quite the workout, utilising all sorts of muscles you might forget about. If you find that your intimate encounters aren’t that taxing on your body, that could explain why you’re having trouble in the bedroom. While the experience doesn’t have to be an all-out sweatfest, your arms, legs, abs, and back should all be playing their part.

The reason why exercising more often can help with sex is that it can strengthen these areas so that you’re able to last longer in bed. The last thing you want is to take a break after two minutes because you’re worn out and don’t have the strength to keep going. Admittedly, there’s nothing wrong with letting her take control for a little while so you can recover. However, if she ends up having to do all the work, she probably won’t be impressed.

Get Tips From An Expert

Whether they don’t want to hurt your feelings or they’re not actually sure what the problem is, it can be hard to get answers about why you’re bad from the people you sleep with. That can be an issue because if you don’t know where you’re going wrong, you can’t make any improvements.

That’s why it might be worth spending time with an expert, plenty of which you can find at Adultseek. Not only are many of the women here well versed in sex, but they also understand men reasonably well because of all the dates they’ve been on. They know the faults that can often crop up and how to address them without causing offence. Plus, they’re usually not afraid to be open about all things concerning sex, so you don’t need to feel awkward discussing your problems. If the two of you hit it off, they may even show you how to do things properly.

Just spending a few hours with one of these women may give you the confidence booster you need when it comes to the bedroom. If not, you can keep booking time with them until you get there.

Be Present In The Moment

Sex is supposed to be an intimate act between two people, yet many partners forget to truly share the experience with their other half. Maybe they’re unresponsive while receiving pleasure, or they look away during tender moments. Whatever it is, some people just fail to connect with what’s happening, and that can remove some of the fun from the experience.

If you’ve been guilty of this in the past, it’s worth remembering that you’re not alone in the bedroom. Try to make eye contact more often or be more vocal when a girl is going down on you. Try to pay attention to the stuff she likes, too, and do it more often. Simply by being more attentive to your partner, you should find that your encounters go from dull to exciting in an instant.

Introduce New Forms Of Pleasure

Fun in the bedroom is about more than just you penetrating someone. In plenty of cases, such an activity isn’t even included as part of sex. Some people prefer to focus on the various acts of foreplay, as well as integrating toys and kinks, to get their rocks off.

If you’re worried that your go-to method isn’t working, it’s worth switching things up in the future. Maybe spend more time making your partner feel good with your hands and mouth before you unzip. Alternatively, it’s worth seeing if she has any particular interests that you may be open to trying out. It’s always good to have honest discussions about sex with the people you sleep with, especially those who are more than just a one-time encounter. You never know what pleasures you might discover together, which could change things in the bedroom forever.

Being bad in bed isn’t something that you have to live with. Problems like this are easy to fix with the right motivation, though you may need to give it time before your skills are worth idolising. Practice makes perfect, after all.

His Luck With The Irish

May 1, 2021 By eve 2 Comments

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Albert had walked the coast of Innis free several times on family vacations. This was the first time he had done it alone. He parked the rental in the familiar parking lot along the road to Kerry. It was early, the grass was slick with dew and only few horse and carts were waiting for the tourists to experience riding in a trap.

Even though it was early summer he wore stout hiking boots a pair of well-worn jeans and layers of T shirt sweatshirt and vest for the 5K hike along the water’s edge. His footfalls echoed on the pavement as he made his way towards the shoreline. Passing through the black wrought iron gate was like walking backwards in time. Flat grey stones on a heavy forest floor had been worn almost smooth from the hundreds of hikers that passed this way every day. Although it was a bright day the temperature under the canopy of deciduous trees was somewhat dimmer. The bird song and rustling of leaves in the wind we’re the only sounds in the world. Albert knew the road wasn’t that far away geographically but here now the modern world was a lifetime away. He traveled along at a fair pace passively observing the world around him. Until he came to a break in the shrubbery and Bush is that separated The Walking path from the water. There were a half dozen large stones in the water that one could hop out onto and get a better view of the entire Lake. Albert cautiously hopped out on the first stone checked its steadiness and continued out for three more. Taking a few pictures and fondly remembering skimming stones here when he was a kid.

When he was back on the path he remembered playing in these Woods and wondering where the fairies lived. At one point he came to the edge of a large dip behind a group of trees it was covered in Moss and Ivy. it looked like the place he always imagined magical creatures lived . If he had never climbed the rock, he never would have known that there was something hidden below. He climbed the tree and sat on the big branch that overlooked the vale.

He cracked open a can of ale that he had purchased on his way this morning. He looked at his watch and thought beer for breakfast. Although the weather was fine, and the morning had come on he had heard no other hikers. Albert had the world to himself. A couple of times the light flickered through the trees and danced across his vision like fairy wings sparkling in the moonlight. Albert finished the ale convinced himself that the fairy tales were getting to him and continued his walk. When he arrived at the Manor Lee house and gardens he figured out where all the tourists had gone. They all had driven straight to the attraction. Something his parents had never done when he was a kid.

he found a lovely piece of grass between the house and the Lake where he could have a picnic. He said on his vest and laid out the sandwich fruit and cookies that he had picked up at the petrol station that morning.

Kelly watched the lone picnicker with great interest it wasn’t very often that you saw single men at ancient homes on weekday mornings. She laughed herself as she watched him unpack his knapsack and layout his entire lunch. From where she was trimming hedges, she could see that he had not expected the sun to be hot. The back of his neck was bright red and very obviously sunburned. his here was soft curls that whispered the edge of his sunburnt skin. Kelly imagined holding an ice cube in her mouth as she soothed his sunburn and slowly undressed him. He was alone he didn’t seem to be in any particular hurry and she figured any fuck will do as a lunch break. She tossed her tools into her canvas bag and made her way over to the picnicker.

She extended her hand and in the most beautiful Irish lilt said. “it seems you’ve got a wicked burn on the back of your neck. Did you not put sunblock on before you started your adventure this morning?” She had the sun at her back so as Albert looked up all he saw was a giant hand close to his face offered by a large dark figure.

As he spoke, he felt the back of his neck and grimaced at the idea of how that was going to hurt tonight. “I walked along the water and was in the Woods most of the time, so I didn’t figure I’d need anything on.” He looked around the shadowy figure towards the main house Ann queried, “do you think they sell sunblock inside? I’m sure if they do it’ll cost me an arm and a leg.”

“I know for a fact that they do and yes, it is an arm and a leg as you say, but I have some I’ve been more than glad to share.”

He arose from his lunch and extended his hand, “I’m Albert, from Canada.”

“Kelly, from backdown the road,” she said taking his hand and giggling as she spoke. They flirted mercilessly and chatted mindlessly for several minutes. It took some pretty heavy flirting for Albert to notice the continuous touching of his arms and holding his attention before. He looked at her bag and realized it was a canvas tool box and that she was wearing jeans with deep Brown stains in the knees and polo shirt with the parks logo on it. Playing it safe Albert said, “oh you work here am I keeping you from anything?”

Kelly took the opening slid her hand into the crook of his elbow and said all I have to do this afternoon just show you a good time.” Responding to the innuendo in her tone Albert laughed and asked her if she wanted to get out of there.

They gathered up their things and headed to the employee parking lot. Kelly offered to drive him back to his car or they could go do a little bit of sightseeing. Albert asked if she knew of any nice hikes they could go on. She thought for a moment.

“Do you wanna do some of the sheep fields, and go hillwalking or do you want to see some really great waterfalls? “

“Take me to see your waterfalls.”

As they drove further away from where he had started this morning he noticed the number of tour buses that they now drove by. They had only driven for about 30 minutes when she pulled across the road and parked next to a River.

“Make sure your boots are done up. We’re going to walk along this River up to a couple of sets of waterfalls and if you’re up for it the view from up above the second waterfall is pretty amazing. She opened the trunk of her car tossed in everything that had been in the back seat and changed her own shoes. She tossed an old blanket at him and asked him to put it into his knapsack. they made their way on to the path nodding in greeting tourists as they began to climb the narrow trail the Hill beyond the path was a field of sparsely planted trees with a bed of moss and ferns. Kelly was a few paces a head and looked back often to make sure he was still with her.

“so do you figure that the fairies from ferns?” He asked trying to be funny, But failing miserably at it. she groaned and took his hand to drag him along the path a little quicker.

“My God you are slow come on!” she dragged him and picked up the pace as they came to the first waterfall. They had great fun playing fashion shoot and taking pictures of one another like they had known each other forever. She stood close to him and touched his face asking if he wanted to keep going. He kissed her on the cheek and bowed his head granting her permission to take the lead. She stepped off the trail and walked diagonally through the Ferrier firm that he had just asked about. The climb was steep and required all of their energy. It was well afternoon as they emerged into a clearing and away from all the noises that had filled his head.

She took the knapsack from his back and set up the blanket at the end of edge of the forest. Albert scanned the views trying to take in all the shades of green and stillness that he so rarely got to experience. When he turned around Kelly stood on the blanket completely naked. Not being one to look a gift horse in the mouth Albert smiled a stupid grin and began to undress. With awkward enthusiasm they approached each other and kissed for the first time. Albert was completely aroused at the sight of this woman naked and willing.

He held her ponytail drawing her chin up as he worked his way down her body her skin smelled sun kissed and tasted a little salty. Making his way towards her treasure trail to a soft trimmed mound of ginger. He maneuvered himself to be able to caress, kiss and massage her inner thighs. Not touching her sacred centre until the first moan rose from her throat and her fingers knit their way through his curly locks. In short order her body responded as she tilted her pelvis grabbed his head and pressed her clitoris towards his mouth. She was wet in anticipation of what was to come. As he sucked her clitoris, he slid a single finger deep within allowing his other fingers to extend towards her ass. With a practiced hand he began to edge her towards an orgasm. Utterances of protest for standing were met with a second finger and more intense finger fucking. as her orgasm built she brought one leg over his shoulder and began to rock against his tongue until she gushed and her knees went weak. Wanting to torture her a little longer, He withdrew his fingers but continue to play with her ass as he blew cold air on her clitoris. She had no choice to lie down unless she wanted him to stop. As the second orgasm began to build with this variation on a theme she actually physically separated and beg to lie down.

As she stepped back she realized just how well-endowed Albert was. Not only was he every bit of nine inches he had to be one of the thickest cocks she had ever seen. He was completely erect, and his engorged penis was a deep crimson. Kelly looked at him in surprise and said, “Oh my God that must hurt!” he laughed and replied, “it’s not a bad kind of hurt; however, if you want to give him some attention a little bit of relief I’d be cool with that or if you like you can call your fairy friends.” he laughed and flicked his head towards the forest as though expecting a group of winged fairies to come flying through the trees.

she sat on the blanket and pointed to the darkest part of the forest. “Call the King of the fairies and see what he’ll do for you.”

“is there anything special I need to say?”

“No, but do be polite you don’t want to get dragged off just pleasured.” she leaned back on her elbows and tilted her head towards the forest as if to encourage him to talk to the fairies. Enjoying the silliness with this stranger he threw his arms in the air and with wild abandonment called the fairy King and asked to send out his best fucking fairies to take him away.

Kelly laughed as the late afternoon sun warmed her skin. Albert joined her on the blanket where they continued to explore. As they continued around the bases Kelly caressed and touched his penis with a sense of trepidation. Although she was completely engaged in their fun, she touched his cock like she was afraid of it. Feeling rather full of himself Albert asked her if she was afraid of his little friend. Her laugh was nervous and her smile broad as she commented about there being nothing little about his friend the two of them dissolved into laughter as he rolled onto his back and offered her free inspection. She moved herself to sit cross legged between his legs with his penis completely engorged and ready to be abused. He wasn’t sure if she didn’t know what to do or if she was shocked by the size so he decided to be amused and watch her Explorer her sensual self. While her attention was focused her touch was unpracticed. She kissed and licked the top of his penis like an ice cream cone. He ached for her to grab his balls and take her to the back of his throat. When she took the entire head and sucked on it as she worked the shaft with her hand he lost focus and went along for the ride. His eyes closed made sunspots in his eyes as he felt the sun prickle and dance across his chest well Kelly gingerly explored his response is to her attention. At several points Albert attempted to see if the giggles he heard were from Kelly or perhaps a lost hiker. Kelly moaned licked and sucked occasionally making eye contact if a grown or curse word escaped Albert mouth. Albert enjoyed the attention and maintained focus until she had withdrew her attentions.

He opened his eyes to see Kelly holding a condom and asking, “would you care to fuck me?”

He took the condom from her and definitely applied the sheath. She mounted his cock and lowered herself about halfway she stayed there for what seemed like the longest time just squeezing the muscles and moving the smallest amount. She held in the squat position until Albert took her by the hips and pressed her into his groin. When she was completely filled with him she placed her hands on his shoulders and began to rotate ever so slowly purring and moaning as his throbbing cock initiated another orgasm as she rocked Albert imagined fairies settling in for an evening show. He closed his eyes and raised his hips to match her rhythm the build was slow but the sensation was one he wanted to hold on to. He could feel the sun dip below the trees as he rolled her onto her back in order to finish with a solid proper fucking.

With her legs wrapped firmly around his hips Albert varied his speed and timed his fucking until her nails dug into his shoulders and she froze at her climax. He didn’t stop moving completely he just softened the intensity and let her ride her wave of ecstasy. As she started to come down from her orgasm, he pounded her hard and fast bringing her to climax again before he came inside of her. The two cuddled together slipping into sleep almost immediately.

When the sun had dipped completely behind the trees the chill in the air woke the lovers from their tender sleep. Afraid to lose their way in the darkness they dressed quickly said very little and made their way back down the hillside.

They made small talk and used their phone flashlights to find their way back towards the trail. They called out to some lights they had seen ahead assuming it was other hikers. But the lights did not get brighter, and nobody called back. Albert noticed the rise and Ivy on the trees look very much like the area he had passed that morning, a fairy vale. As they approached the rustling leaves and birdsong were replaced with chittering and indiscernible voices.

“It seems we found the fairies?” Albert’s voice was like an icy blast through warm summer evenings, It shattered the silence that had been with them since they awoke. Kelly put a finger to her lips and motioned for him to be quiet.

“It’s too late to tell him to be quiet now we know he’s here,” a voice said. They looked around but could not see where the voice had come from. Before they could speak flicks of light on shiny wings fluttered in front of their faces. It seemed as though the fairies we’re real.

Albert awoke hearing the brae of a horse. He was in the driver seat of his car dressed, his T shirt was gone, and a four-leaf Clover sat on his dashboard. It was early morning, had he dreamed the thing? He was to embarrassed to ask the people milling about what day it was. He started the car and drove away.

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