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Erotica: The Examination Part Two

February 15, 2016 By Phi 4 Comments

Kara squealed as the angle of his fingers changed with his movement.

“Oh! That was a lovely response! Make her do it again!” It was Angela, who had been very focused on alternating between tormenting Jake and Kara’s nipples and sticking her fingers in their mouths intermittently.

Oliver attempted to elicit the response again, but was unable to duplicate it. “Oh, let me try,” said the Asian woman who had been stroking Jake’s cock. She turned toward Kara and used the fingers of one hand to spread her pussy lips apart again, while inserting three and curling her fingers upward.

Kara moaned. Angela smiled. “Her eyes are watering. It makes them seem more blue, doesn’t it?”

The dark-haired woman walked over to Kara. “Kara, do you remember how to end this?” Kara nodded silently. “Kara, do you want to end this?” Kara bit her bottom lip and looked into the woman’s eyes and shook her head.

Satisfied, the dark-haired woman stepped back again.

Kara looked up into the mirror at herself and saw the scene before her. Angela had smeared her lipstick, and with alternating pinching and sucking had make her nipples stiff and pointed and a little bit more red than their usual pink. Oliver, who had lifted his fat fingers to his nose after pulling them out of her cut was now rubbing them on her lips and bidding her to open her mouth and stick out her tongue. Martin was lubing up a medium sided dildo and preparing to stick it in her ass, and the Asian woman was now tickling her G-spot with her quick, probing fingers.

She felt it coming and tried to fight it. Angela noticed. “Oh, it looks like someone is enjoying herself,” she smirked.

Kara was powerless to control it at this point and the wave of energy burst through her body as she started shaking and crying out in unexpected pleasure. Oliver held her down by the shoulders and her ankles pressed hard against the restraints.

Jake watched the whole thing in the mirror to distract himself from the small plug Mira was working into his ass. His cock was throbbing, but with the Asian woman no longer stroking it, he could feel the dull ache in his balls without struggling to keep from climaxing.

He did not want to be enjoying this. It wasn’t that he wanted to hate it – he just didn’t like the growing knowledge that he was enjoying this humiliation. He tried to convince himself that it was watching Kara come that sent shivers of pleasure into his extremities, but he knew it wasn’t just that. It was the thought that he might be next.

He physically shook his head to expunge the thought from it. No. It was the money. He needed the money. He could endure this torture for another …what, half hour? He could do that for 10K.

“Hand me another large dildo from the drawer, Oliver?” The Asian woman had pulled her fingers out of Kara’s pussy and was now rubbing her swollen clit in circles. “I want to see what this one’s orgasm will be like if I add clitoral stimulation to the penetration.”

Martin pulled a sizable piece from the cart and handed it over to the Asian woman, who covered it with Kara’s self-made lubricant.

Jake groaned as the butt plug was removed and he graduated to the larger size. He could have sworn he heard giggling, but the sound of Kara’s second orgasm drowned out everything.

He watched in the mirror as the Asian woman removed the dildo from Kara’s pussy and moved her way between the two tables up to the space between their two heads. She turned toward Jake. “Open wide.”

Jake furrowed his brows and glared at the woman. No, not this. Anything but this. He turned his face away, and found himself looking directly at the dark-haired woman, who did not look amused.

Ten thousand dollars. he thought.

He turned back toward the Asian woman, defeated, and parted his lips.

The taste of her filled his mouth, and was thrust back and forth across his tongue, hitting the back of his throat. His eyes watered, and though they were open, he was no longer registering any sights or sounds – just the feeling of having his mouth violated, and the shame of knowing he could have stopped it at any time.

*Ten thousand dollars,” he thought as he sputtered and coughed.

“We’re ready for that one now,” Mira called out from between his legs.

The assault on his mouth stopped, and Jake enjoyed only moments of relief before he realized what was about to happen.

“Fuck.” he muttered.

“What’s that, Jake?” The dark-haired woman lifted her hand and the examination team paused.

Jake looked into his own reflection. He could stop this now. He could say the word, get up, get $500 and walk away from here and never speak of this.

He looked over at Kara, who had already endured twice what he had. She looked calm. A little high, even, as though she’d smoked a bowl and was now just chilling while strangers poked and prodded at her.

If she could enjoy it, if she could get through it – then why couldn’t he?

He looked back into his own reflection. His cock was thick and erect, his balls aching, his face covered in drool and sweat and another person’s come – and there were now two women between his legs about to shove a dildo the size of his own cock into his ass.

He thought about the women he’d fucked that way before.

“Do it.” he responded.

He didn’t want to enjoy it. He didn’t want to want it.

But he did.

Oliver and Martin, having negotiated who was getting which hole, were now preparing to fuck Kara while Angela, having hiked up her skirt was now climbing up onto the examination table to straddle Kara’s blissed out face.

He felt something warm and wet on his cock. A tongue. A mouth.

The Asian woman, having worked the large dildo into his ass with Mira, had now taken over thrusting duties and was energetically plunging in and out of his ass. Mira, a round woman with green eyes and auburn hair was now taking his thickness into her own mouth.

Jake watched her head bobbing up and down on his cock and felt the orgasm building. He no longer had sense of how much time had passed. He could hear Kara’s muffled moans in chorus with the sounds of Angela’s gleeful laughter, and the two men grunting and panting as they maneuvered in and out of Kara’s lower body.

The urge was overwhelming him and he started to panic. How much time was left? He couldn’t have come this far to forfeit everything!

He turned his head toward the corner of the room where the dark-haired woman stood, arms folded over her chest, eyes locked on him.

With tears pouring from his eyes, he mouthed the word. She raised an eyebrow and maintained her gaze.

“Please,” he said out loud. “Please, I can’t…”

She looked at her wristwatch, sighed and looked back at him.

She nodded her head slightly, and Jake’s mind and body exploded in release as he involuntarily reached forward and thrust Mira’s head down on his cock.

After what seemed like minutes, but was probably only seconds, he relaxed his grip over Mira’s head and exhaled with a loud moan as the phallus was removed from his ass.

Mira and the Asian woman stood up, thanked the dark-haired woman and disposed of their latex gloves as they exited the room.

Meanwhile, the chorus of orgasms from the foursome at the other table had begun to die down as, in turn, each of the three examiners finished sating their needs, and exited the room without a word.

The dark haired woman shut the door behind them and dimmed the lights. She unstrapped Kara first, then Jake, and covered each of them with thick blankets from the cabinets.

Moving up to stand between them, she reached a gentle hand over to each of them and caressed their foreheads, lightly running her fingers through their hair.

Kara was sniffling, but strong. Jake was still in shock.

“You’ve both done tremendously well. You may stay in here as long as you like. I will be here until you’re ready to leave. Your cashier’s checks will be waiting for you in the lobby.

They lay there for several minutes under the soft blankets, in the dim light with the dark haired woman offering warmth and comfort.

It was still bright outside when Kara and Jake walked out of the building, showered, dressed, and each $10,000 richer.

“So, that happened.” Kara offered.

“Yeah. That it did.” Jake responded.

“I’m Kara.”

“Jake.”

“Nice to meet you.”

“Yeah, you too.”

There was a moment of silence. Then Jake spoke up.

“Kara?”

“Yeah?”

“You want to go get some dinner?”

“Yeah, that sounds good.”

(And they lived happily ever after.)

Erotic fiction writer. Phi (pronounced “fee”) came into kink at early age and renewed her connection with the lifestyle in 2014 after a decade-long hiatus. A somewhat popular and undeniably avid blogger on fetlife.com under the name phi-is-me, she lives in the suburb of a suburb in southern California with two cats and six pillows.

Erotica: The Examination

February 8, 2016 By Phi 7 Comments

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There were two, a man and a woman, each laying on a medical examination table, naked under thin paper robes open to the front, ankles strapped into the stirrups.

The woman with the dark hair, pencil skirt, and lab coat carried a clipboard. She’d led them down the hallway to this room. She’d watched as they were told to undress and don the paper robes. She’d strapped them in herself.

She now went over their release forms and verbally confirmed they understood the rules. If they endured the next hour, they would each receive a cashier’s check for $10,000.

If they stopped before the hour was over, they would forfeit the check for $500 cash.

The man and the woman both agreed to the terms once more.

There was a mirror across the ceiling. In it, they could bear witness to their own vulnerability as well as each other. Having just met in the waiting room less than an hour earlier, they stole glances at each other in the mirror – as if to sooth their sense of shame in the situation by visually recognizing they were not alone in it.

The door opened and the dark haired woman set the clipboard down. “Welcome, you’re just in time. We were just finishing up the preliminaries.”

There was the sound of shuffling as five people entered the room and situated themselves in a half circle in front of the two examination tables.

His eyes looked up into the mirror in terror as he realized it was a combination of men and women and he felt a flush in his face as he realized his cock was responding somewhat positively to the experience.

“See how it twitches?” The dark-haired woman had stepped forward and spread the man’s knees further apart, revealing him further to the assembled onlookers. “Come closer, if you like. If you put your hands on it, you can feel it hardening in response to your touch.”

Two of the women from the group stepped forward and reached past his thighs to his core, gently touching his shaft with gloved hands.

“Don’t be shy, ladies and gentlemen. They can take it.” The dark-haired woman was now spreading the woman’s knees apart, and motioning for the others to come forward.

The third woman, a blonde, and the two men stepped forward. The blonde stood between the two tables, running a hand a long each of their thighs as she came to a stop in front of each of their chests, pulling apart the front of the paper robes to reveal them.

“His nipples are pretty firm and hard. Hers aren’t as hard as I’d expect, for it being such a cold room,” she noted, running a finger of each hand lightly across the nipples.

Meanwhile, the two women had strengthened their grip on his cock, now fully erect, while one of the men used his own gloved fingers to pinch and spread her glistening pussy lips apart.

“She is aroused, however,” he said. “Perhaps her nipples need some additional stimulation.”

As if cued, the second man, taller than the other, walked around the table to her other side and began pinching and tugging at the woman’s nipples. “Interesting,” he commented, “This one seems to be responding more to the harder pinching than that one does to the caressing. Angela, how do you think it would respond to oral stimulation?”

The blonde woman turned. “Oh, that is an interesting question. Let’s find out.” She pulled her hair back from her face and leaned down to put her mouth on the exposed woman’s nipple.

After a few seconds, and with a hard sucking motion, she stood back up to look at her handiwork. “It does seem to have made a difference, but not as much as the one you’re pinching. This girl seems to respond to pain.”

The man on the table moaned, and the team of examiners turned their attention to him. The dark-haired woman smiled and moved up to look him directly in the face. “Jake, you are going to have to hold back to be fully compensated. It has only been a few minutes, you still have at least another 50 to go. Do you understand me?”

He closed his eyes and nodded.

“Jake, I asked if you understand me,” she grabbed his cheeks with her palm against his chin and jerked it to face her. “Open your eyes and tell me you understand.”

His eyes darted open and with a pained look, he nodded and grunted, “Yes, I understand.”

A moan was heard from the woman on the table. The fat man with thick fingers was now vigorously penetrating her pussy with his thick latex-covered fingers. “We can let this one climax, though, right? Since she can go several times?”

“Yes, Kara can orgasm as many times as you’d like, Oliver. As any of you would like,” she announced to the rest of the room. The dark-haired woman let go of Jake’s face and stepped away to make room for someone else to move in.

She walked toward the corner of the room and rolled a small cart with four drawers over.

“We have some additional tools and implements here if any of you are interested,” she explained, as she unlocked the top drawer.

The taller man walked over to the cart and opened the top drawer. He pulled a series of phallic objects in various sizes.

Walking over toward Jake, he held them up in comparison to his rigid cock, being stroked by one of the women while another one rubbed a lubed finger around the outside of his asshole.

“The largest one of these seems to match up to his size.”

“There are larger ones in the second drawer, as well,” noted the dark-haired woman.

“Ah. Excellent,” responded the tall man.

“Martin,” the woman fingering Jake’s asshole spoke up, “May I see the smallest of them? I’d like to see if we can get this one up to taking one his own size.”

“Oh, of course, Mira, be my guest.” He handed her the smallest of the dildos and looked over at Oliver, who was now two fingers deep in Kara’s wet cunt. “Oliver, do you mind if I do my own experimentation on that one’s asshole while you do that?”

“Of course not, Martin.” Oliver moved off to the side while keeping his momentum going.

TO BE CONTINUED…

BDSM Scene Ideas: Forced Exercise

February 8, 2016 By Desdemona 2 Comments

Being in Los Angeles, we have the advantage of many many types of dungeons, events, classes, and munches. But what if you live in a place that does not offer this type of diversity? We hope this ongoing BDSM scene idea series gives you some good ammunition to practice in the privacy of your own home.

This week we’re offering exercise scene ideas, inspired by a local forced exercise class at Dungeon East hosted by the talented Mistress Justine Cross and personal trainer Samuel Every. anniebear was lead through a series of exercises, but no tapping out if she got too tired. Mistress was at the ready with a crop for those lazy booties!

What you will need:
-Honestly, nothing! All you need is an open space for your bottom/slave/submissive to move about. But here are some recommended, optional accessories:
-yoga or exercise mat
-terrible (to your submissive’s tastes) music
-hitting implements-crop, cane, flogger, etc.
-timer or stopwatch (most phones these days come with time keeping apps)

You can prep this scene by scheduling an “exercise night” with your submissive. Give the illusion that you two are going to workout together and have them be at the ready in workout clothes on the designated date night. You should also show up in work out clothes too just to keep things going. If they pepper you with questions about the impending workout, simply say it’s a surprise but that you’re pretty sure they’ll enjoy it.

Begin with a quick interrogation of their recent eating and exercise habits. anniebear has a rule that she cannot eat sweets without asking permission so this would be a good time to see if the rule was broken. The fun part about this scene is it does not matter if your submissive is a health nut or hasn’t seen the inside of a gym in ten years, you can modify your torment to fit their abilities. We always recommend sticking to moderate/easy exercises unless you’re a trained professional. This is also the time to check in on any injuries new or old that they’ve sustained.

Once you’ve determined how good or bad they’ve been that week, let the exercise begin! I know one Master that makes his slave disrobe before the workout, thus enhancing the humiliation of the scene. The choice is entirely up to you. You’ll want to start every good work out with a stretch. Focus on lots of stretches that require bending over to better access the rear. You can deliver some good swats or spanks while they focus on stretching. Then of course, arms up to the sky to stretch the torso and torment the nipples.

For a warm up, start with jumping jacks. Put some music on that you know your slave will hate; anniebear particularly “enjoys” heavy metal/grunge (where the guy is kind of screaming over the top of a beat) or Britney Spears. Between each jumping jack, you’ll have access to swat or tease the genitals. Have them keep doing the jumping jacks until they’re a bit out of breath. You can introduce a stopwatch or timer, having them count aloud the number of jumping jacks they can accomplish in a certain time period. If they meet certain goals you can reward them…with more spankings of course!

Next, we’ll lay down on the floor for everyone’s favorite, sit ups! Sit ups or crunches are really hard for a lot of people. This would be a good time to offer some positive reinforcement and encouragement while at the same time reminding them that if they do not complete a set goal for number of crunches then they will be punished. If your submissive looks a little “heated” you can cool them down with a surprise, swift spray in the face with a spray/misting water bottle. The reaction will be hilarious!

Moving on to push ups. During this “workout” it’s important to recognize what your submissive is actually able to do and stick to that. However, you both may find your own joy in “making” them try to do one whole push up or pull up if that’s where they’re at physically. Some folks are into the humiliation aspect of it. It all depends what you’ve negotiated. The push up is a great opportunity to offer swats to the behind or increase difficulty by propping your feet on their back while they labor away. You can also focus n the under size by teasing or pinching the nipples.

Get creative with this scene! The possibilities are only limited by your submissive’s abilities and even then you can modify almost any task to make it less difficult. Do you have any funny or clever forced exercise ideas? We’d love to hear about it! Happy sweating (and swatting)!

Writer, photographer, hedonist, Dom. After years of at-home BDSM, Dexx finally embraced the kink community and met many fantastic fellow kinksters in the scene. Along the way, it occurred to him that it would be just super if there was a magazine-style web site which catered to people interested in BDSM, and he recruited some of his friends to help create it.

How to “kink-up” your Valentines Day

February 8, 2016 By anniebear 1 Comment

February 14th is just around the corner! You know what that means, it’s the one time of year when vanillas go just a little kinky to spice up their bedroom habits! Out come the fuzzy handcuffs and edible lube but here at Kink Weekly, we can do better than that. In honor of the holiday that causes the most fights, proposals, and babies out of the whole year, we present five fun tips for “kinking” up your Valentines Day (suitable for both vanillas and kinksters alike!).

1. Pain can be pleasurable

While I’m a firm believer that most people are either born kinky or not, it can still be fun to explore some new limits. The most common techniques for beginners would be biting and light scratching of the skin. You can get a bit more technical with some nipples clamps-don’t be scared! With the right type of clamps, you can adjust for how much pressure is being applied. Communicate with your partner while you’re applying them. If they are scared, try the clamps on yourself first to show that your nipple does not in fact, fall off from clamp use. Follow up the clamps with some ice, which if you’re not expecting it can almost “hurt” at first.

2. Try some sensory deprivation

For those of you newbies out there-this means depriving your partner of their senses. This can be accomplished by use of a blindfold, ear plugs or ear buds with music, and bondage (you can touch things if you can’t move your arms) just to name a few. Some couples go all out with this theme, creating elaborate and intricate scenes to both terrify and titillate their partners. If this is new territory for you, start with the blindfold. You can still communicate with your partner and then build the scene with different elements from there. You can take advantage of your partner’s limited capacity to explore some sensual play. Use a feather or for the more daring, a light slapper or crop. It all comes in bits and pieces and what you both are comfortable with.

3. Have an open conversation about a fantasy you’ve always had

This all goes back to the open and honest communication we tout on a regular basis in our articles on Kink Weekly. We believe the biggest problem plaguing most mainstream relationships is a lack of honest communication. Instead, people often fall into a trap of not fully disclosing fantasies and desires for risk of judgment from their partner. Tis’ the Valentines season to throw that old and tired thinking out the window. Sit down with your partner and agree to put judgment on the backburner (or completely get rid of it!). Then disclose that deep, erotic fantasy you’ve always had. It doesn’t even have to be very elaborate. Perhaps you’ve always wanted to lick your partner’s feet or maybe you feel your breasts need more TLC the important part is to actually say this out loud and see what happens. No fantasy is too stupid or taboo. I bet you’ll be surprised by what your partner has been keeping from you. For those of you who may be in a heavy D/s relationship or just enjoy kink in the bedroom, this would be a good time to have a relationship inventory to make sure you are both on the same page or discover that your slave is super interested in something they may have seen at a dungeon or online.

4. Go someplace naughty together

This could be as simple as the local sex toy store or if you’re a regular BDSM
player, you and your partner could visit one of the more taboo parties or a swingers club. I know plenty of couples that just enjoy going and watching the “festivities.” In the end, you may find that it’s not for you but it’s fun to try new things with your significant other and will only strengthen the bond you share.

5. Play with food

I know what you’re thinking, zzzzzzzzzz (that’s you falling asleep while reading this). But hear me out! If you have not yet discovered, food can be one of the most erotic or humiliating scene accessories one can use. I mean, imagine being smacked across the face with a limp hot dog or having chocolate sauce licked from head to toe. Those ideas probably elicited very different responses form you. The ideas are limitless. Heavy scenes involving food elements are called “sploshing” –which is a new term to me. Lay out some plastic drop cloths on your bed and get down and dirty. You can make this an erotic experience by using foods you and your partner enjoy or if you really want to be a sadist, use foods that “hurt” like spicy peppers or things that smell terrible. This also gives you a chance to revert back to your childhood self because playing with food is fun! Sploshing also has the added advantage of just being able to hop in the shower when it’s all done. No permanent marks or bruising (though I’ve heard of ways that you could but that’s for another article).

For those of you celebrating, I hope you all have a fabulous Valentines Day with someone rad. We always want to hear about your adventures (and misadventures) so please let us know how it goes in the comments! xo- anniebear :)

Something wicked…

February 8, 2016 By Redd Dyver Leave a Comment

Photographer: ReddDyver Models: Travis and Theresa

His possession of her was swift. She fought very little because in fact, she wanted it. She wanted to be owned and toyed with. Who was this wicked man-or would creature or being be a more fitting name? His power was intoxicating, consuming. She could not wait for more.

Topspace

February 8, 2016 By Jenn Masri 12 Comments

Subspace. We’ve all heard of it and some of us have experienced it. If you are unfamiliar with what it is I highly suggest you read my article about it here on Kink Weekly. However, I get asked in class when I speak to subspace if there is an equivalent for D-types. Yes, there is such a thing as Topspace or Dom(me)space. However, this is something you hear much less about. Not only do you hear less about it, but it also seems to occur less often than subspace. Why is that? I have a theory.

This theory is my own personal opinion based on what I know of subspace and having experienced Topping. Have I gone out and researched it? Nope. Have I interviewed 100 D-types about it looking for common threads? Nope. So take this for what it’s worth and, if you’re really interested, do more research. If you do, and find more interesting tidbits – please leave them in the comment section below!

Ok, so let’s use subspace as a starting point. In general, subspace refers to an s-type’s reaction to various chemicals being released in their system. The closest vanilla activity I can compare it to is a runner’s high. In both scenarios the individual is pushing past, or through, a painful sensation – allowing the aforementioned chemicals (adrenaline, endorphins, etc.) to kick in. These chemicals give a natural high feeling and increase pain tolerance. If you have experienced either you know that you also have to allow yourself to relax into, or give into this chemical change in your body in order to feel the full effects. As I mentioned in my previous article about subspace, everyone experiences it differently.

So with that subspace refresher, here is why I think Topspace is more difficult for people to achieve. When you’re Topping you are focused on numerous things – where you want the scene to go, how your bottom is doing, which implement you’re using, your aim, your surroundings, etc. When you are that focused and “in your head”, it is much more difficult to let go, or “give in”, to the chemicals being released. You may still have endorphins and adrenaline pumping through your system however, there is a huge psychological component to achieving Topspace. For a runner if all you keep focusing on are the components of running – how tight your shoes are, worry about a lace coming undone, the pain in your right knee, concern about which direction you’re headed or if you’ll become lost on your trail, etc – you won’t ever allow yourself to get out of your head and give in to that runner’s high. The act of running has to become second nature so that you aren’t thinking about it anymore. That’s when you can start to “fly”, so to speak.

This is why I typically hear of D-types who have a lot of experience speaking of getting “spacey”. They have enough experience to where what they are doing is second nature. Flogging, spanking, or whatever they love just comes naturally and they don’t have to think very much about what they’re doing. They can let go and allow those chemicals to take over and feel all floaty after a scene just like s-types.

I think it takes a long time, and/or a lot of experience to get to the point that a D-type can get there, for their play to really become second nature – which is why we hear of it less often than subspace. It’s like getting in your car and arriving home, not remembering the drive. Because driving and your route home have become something you no longer have to consciously think about. Once a Top can say that about their play, they are much more likely to experience Topspace.

Jennifer Masri is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, specializing in Alternative Lifestyles for individual and relationship issues. She also teaches the BDSM 101 class series at Sanctuary LAX in Los Angeles every Monday evening. Read more about Jennifer on her blog, A Kink Shrink.

Baadmaster’s Guide to Public Play: Part Three

January 11, 2016 By Baadmaster 1 Comment

In order to live up the title of “Complete Guide,” let’s conclude this series with a collection of tips to make your public play a success. Of course, if you are an advanced player, these tips might seem obvious. Then again, you can use them as a check list to see that you have not forgotten any of them.

• Plan your scene. When you see musicians jam, they usually have their sets planned out. It is not totally free form. Same with public play – especially if it is your first time. You should not just wing it. Have a good idea of what equipment you will be using, what your scene will consist of and the general arc of the play. It need not be a note-for-note plan, but you should not leave a lot to chance – especially if it is your first scene.

• Agree on a safe word. This has been mentioned so many times, even in Fifty Shades for crying out loud, you probably want to punch the computer screen. Don’t. This is rather important and worth repeating. Make sure you not only have a safe word, but also have a safe signal.

• If you are performing rope bondage, watch out for cramping. The sub might not safeword on it, but it can be very painful – and not in a good way. Check in with the sub every once in a while with respect to this issue.

• If you are a hard or heavy player who is new to this particular group or dungeon, introduce yourself – and your submissive – to the host and/or the Dungeon Monitor (DM) and explain what you will be doing in your scene. That way, the DM will know what to expect, know that it is fully consensual, that you are in control and will not step in and stop your scene.

• If you wish to do something super-edgy and dangerous – like flesh hook suspension – you MUST discuss it with the host way before the actual party. (Again, this seems obvious, especially as equipment must be brought in.) This also applies to fire play and knife play.

• Although pain is not a requirement for a successful scene – rope bondage, caging or mummification can all be pain-free – remember what is heavy pain to one submissive can be light pain to another. One pain size does not fit all. The key word here is “communicate.”

• If you only want to watch, fine. Being a voyeur is perfectly acceptable at a play party. But be respectful of another’s scene. It might seem obvious, but do not interfere with any scene in any way.

• If you meet someone new and want to play, negotiate and outline the scene. The bottom should state in no uncertain terms what his/her hard limits are. And the Top should always respect these limits.

• Stick to these negotiated guidelines. Unless you are an experienced couple, stay reasonably within your negotiated limits. For example, if you have negotiated a light caning, keep it light. You might want to push the sub’s soft limits a bit, but don’t use the fact that he/she is immobilized as an excuse to do anything you want.

• Get the audience out of your mind. Concentrate solely on your Dominant or your submissive. Pay close attention to him/her; ignore any comments from those who are watching. Don’t play to the crowd; play to your partner.

• Observe. The Dom/me should be overly observant as to the condition of the sub. Often a submissive is reluctant to “safe.” Or is deep in subspace (which will be covered in subsequent articles) and cannot utter the safe word or even signal. So, don’t just rely on the safe word or safe signal. You don’t want to hurt your sub or have some DM stop your scene when you could just as easily have stopped it, or slowed it down, by yourself.

• Reassure your submissive. Being tied up or flogged in public is scary. Especially if it is his/her first time. Reassure the sub so he/she can relax and enjoy the scene.
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• Don’t neglect aftercare. “Aftercare” is the sum total of the actions a Dominant takes, after a scene, to ease the transition of the submissive from her/his elevated endorphin state back to pre-scene normality. For many submissives, this can be the highlight of the scene!

• Don’t forget to clean and wipe down any equipment that you used.

There is one final thing you should do to make your scene a complete success. Make sure you thank the other person and compliment them on their participation in the scene with you.

But whether you play or not, have fun at the party. That’s what parties are for!

After a ten year run as head writer for the legendary bondage.com, and an equally long run as the host of the hit internet show “Baadmaster’s Dungeon,” we are pleased to welcome the one and only Baadmaster to KinkWeekly. His thoughts about all things BDSM will now appear regularly on these pages. From the mental aspects of D/s to the nuts and bolts of S&M play, Baadmaster will cover every facet of this ever expanding lifestyle.

The Willing Subject

December 27, 2015 By Desdemona 1 Comment

Photographer: Dexx Models: Mistress Lucy and Renatta Collete

She loved to serve. To be subjected to the most mundane tasks pleased her immensely. Mistress enjoyed the torment. A foot stool, a shelf, any inanimate object-left for minutes or hours if she pleased.

Baadmaster’s Guide to Public Play: Part Two

December 24, 2015 By Baadmaster 3 Comments

In this second installment of our “Complete Guide To Public Play” we will examine the ins and outs of public play itself. The first question is, why do so many lifestylers play in public? The answer to this query could fill a book. But, rather than ramble on “big book style,” let’s try and be as succinct as possible.

There is an historical aspect to public BDSM play. Back in the day, the “Old Guard Leather Societies” encouraged public play. Maybe it was the kinkyness of it, or the exhibitionistic aspects of it, but this tradition continues to this day. (Enough of “BDSM History 101” for today!)

But history alone is not the complete answer. If public play did not serve a purpose, it would have died long ago. It seems the very act of displaying a slave reinforces, or even increases, the power exchange dramatically. As opposed to a private scene, here the submissive submits in front of everyone. It is an affirmation of his/her submission. Furthermore, the Dominant is strutting his Dom/me stuff for all to see. By all accounts, this public display of Dominance and submission is so powerful, and so bonding, that it has become one of the most defining aspects of our lifestyle.

To show you the power of public play, here is a slave’s diary of an actual play party she attended.

We were introduced to the other couples, most everyone was collared and they all had been together for some time. The play started with the youngest couple. She took off her clothes and was cuffed to a high post. She had to stand on her tippy-toes. Her Master practiced using his whip on her. The whipping was quite severe, but she never said a word. In fact, she giggled a lot. She didn’t even come close to uttering a safe word. The harder he hit her, the more she seemed to love it. (Later I was told she was a bust out masochists and loved pain.)

The host and his slave next took their turn. I watched him casually turn to her and tell her to strip, which she did immediately. She was also chained to this T post and then blindfolded. His approach was one of sensuality, not brutality. He worked on her for what seemed like an eternity. First he played with her breasts. Then he put clothespins on her nipples. Next came a long hand spanking. Unlike the first couple, there was no sado-masochistic dynamic. But the pleasure this slave derived from this extensive hand spanking was obvious. After he was finished with her, he removed her chains and clamps and clothespins and took her in his arms and held her lovingly. She was clearly in heaven.

Now it was my turn. Even though we had practiced our scene in advance, I have never been this excited, afraid, nervous, horny, anticipating and petrified before. Never have all these emotions flooded me simultaneously. It was truly an amazing experience and it was only going to get more mind boggling as my Master came for me…

For many, public play can be an adrenaline producing adventure that they cannot get by simply playing at home, in front of the same television that they watch “Game of Thrones” on.

Still, there are more reasons for public play. Many Dominants use play parties as a forum to demonstrate their latest toys and techniques. What better way to try out that new flogger or to demonstrate one’s skill with single-tail to an appreciative audience? Better still, they can get to show off their submissive’s progress to members of the community. And since rope bondage can be both beautiful and hot at the same time, why not show it off?

This can often be BDSM as performance art!

In Part III, we will offer some tips to make your public play a success!!!

Five Kinky Toys for My X-Mas Vacation

December 21, 2015 By Desdemona 2 Comments

I’m taking anniebear to Mexico for five nights over the Christmas holiday. So as I pack, I thought I’d share with you the five toys that are getting packed in the suitcase to keep us entertained. Sneak preview – I found some pretty unique new toys at Edgeplay Gear that I’ll be test driving. If you want to snag some for yourself, don’t forget to enter promo code “kinkweekly” during checkout to get a 10% discount.

Cat Claw Skin Scratcher

The great thing about this is that it can be used for very different effects. Stroke it lightly along the skin and you have some incredible sensation play on your hands (literally). It causes the whole body to tingle and draws the bottom into a state of warm fluffy desire and anticipation. Pull a little harder along the skin and they will know you mean business as it becomes a scratchy painful sensation. Push hard enough again and you could draw blood – so make sure to keep it sterilized and only do that if you have negotiated it for your play. Can also produce some interesting sensations with a poking motion instead of scratching. Bonus effects when used on pink sensitive areas.

Hands up! Suction cups

It’s bondage Jim, but not as we know it. If you fancy having your lover helpless at your mercy in the shower, then look no further. The great thing about shower bondage is that all those dirty, messy things you wanted to do but didn’t want to ruin the sheets suddenly become so much more appealing. Like smearing her in peanut butter, for instance. Or dousing her in olive oil and yourself in balsamic and making sweet, sweet vinaigrette. Too weird? Ok fine, just turn the shower on her and alternate between hot and cold until she begs you to do whatever you want her to beg you to do.

Lead them by the nose shackle and leash kit

Did somebody say nose play? No really, did somebody say that? No – it was just me… oh, ok. Well, there’s something particularly humbling about a submissive being led by her (or indeed his) nose. I can’t quite put my finger on it, but it’s at least a little bit piggy-ish, don’t you think? Put her in a loose hog tie and make her squirm around and make oinking noises, perhaps. Add some drinking from a trough, and some rolling around in the mud, and you’ve got yourself a pretty damn awesome pet play scene. Simultaneous bacon frying optional.

Forced Orgasm Belt

OK, so the premise here is pretty simple. The hitachi gets held right on the subject’s fun bits. The powerful vibrations wash over them as their pesky arms and legs are suitably restrained. Helpless to resist, an orgasm builds, and builds, and arrives! Moans, screams, curling toes… But the vibration doesn’t stop. Damn, make it stop, it’s so sensitive… ahh, ahh…. Ohhhh. And then it starts to build again. Another orgasm, how can this be?

And so on, orgasm after orgasm, punctuated with the agony of post-orgasm vibration torture in between.

The great thing is that, once the Dom has set this up and switched it on, very little effort is required. So you can focus your efforts on kissing, or caressing, or heck – maybe a little pain to accompany that pleasure. Or you can just blindfold her and sit back and enjoy the view. And let’s face it, with this particular toy, the sub pretty much has to be a “her”.

Stainless Steel Lips and tongue press

No… F-ing… way. I’m still processing this thing. Is it really what it appears to be? Is it devious, maniacal, diabolical? Ingenious, incredible, amazing?

OK, I’m going to be honest now. Of all of the toys I’m writing about, I haven’t actually tried this one yet. But I stumbled across it online and sat gaping in awe, trying to decipher the fleshy protrusions – what was lips, what was tongue? Made of pure metal and dominance, this is an object of awe and alien beauty.

I can only imagine the special brand of gag-talk that this bad boy will produce.

anniebear had better watch out, because a jolly fat man in a UPS sleigh just delivered this and it has her name written all over it.

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