I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly (and sometimes, more frequent) column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly! Last week, I got a note from a man who, with his wife, had read my first book, “Uniquely Rika” as … [Read more...]
The Initiation of Cora: Part 2
May 7, 2018 By 7 Comments
Click here for Part 1 As always, I was impressed by the size and elegance of the property. It wasn’t really a castle like in the fairy tales. It was more of a huge, sprawling farm built in the style of the late Nineteenth Century at the beginning of the Austrian imperial era. The building was square, with a sixty-by-eighty-meter inner courtyard. The courtyard was … [Read more...]
M/s and Love
March 19, 2018 By 7 Comments
There have been huge debates within the community about whether love belongs with M/s relationships and/or whether love promotes health and happiness within the M/s dynamic. In my opinion, no matter what kind of dynamic and/or relationship you have there should be some kind of love there. To me, love is the reason that we voluntarily do anything. With this being said, there … [Read more...]
The Recipe for Imparted Presence
March 5, 2018 By 4 Comments
Hi everyone! I am writing this article to educate readers about one of the most essential things needed (in my opinion) to have a long-term 24/7 power exchange relationship. A lot of people believe that M/s relationships are about micro-management leading to macro-management. What I mean by this is that at the beginning of a dynamic and/or during training phrases, the slave … [Read more...]
The How’s and Why’s of 1950’s Power Exchange Dynamics
January 22, 2018 By Leave a Comment
In honor of my 1950’s classes coming up (Jan 22 at Sanctuary and Feb 10 at Threshold) I wanted to write an article that shows the Kink community how one can keep the 1950’s alive no matter what your lifestyle entails, and the positives that go along with 1950’s power exchange dynamics. One might think that a 1950’s dynamic is only possible if you are a heterosexual, married … [Read more...]
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