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Fetish – Smoking Erotic

February 5, 2018 By eroticcanela 2 Comments

Fetish Smoking Erotic from EroticCanela on Vimeo.

Tagged With: fetish, smoking fetish, videography

Katerina Piglet Latex

January 30, 2018 By bulltosh Leave a Comment

Katerina Piglet Latex from bulltosh on Vimeo.

Music – Siberian Beast meets mr.moore – wien (original mix)



http://instagram.com/katerina_piglet

latex by http://www.rubear.ru/
video by bulltosh
Model Katerina Piglet

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Review: Locking / buckling wrist cuffs

July 29, 2017 By Desdemona 2 Comments

red cuffs stockroom

Dexx says:

Stockroom was kind enough to send us these leather cuffs to review, so we thought it would be rude not to strap anniebear into them and give her a good spanking. I can confirm that she was held firmly in place and despite some considerable moaning and squirming, she was quite unable to escape… mission accomplished.

These cuffs are part of the standard line of bondage accessories produced by Stockroom, hence the fairly plain sounding product name. They come in a range of colors, including black, pink, and red. We got the red ones, which look quite distinctive and never fail to attract a compliment when being used at a play party or dungeon.

The cuffs have a 2 inch wide main body which fit around the wrists, and then taper to thinner sections at either end. What this achieves is that the thin part can be tucked through and wrapped around the entire wrist. When compared with more traditional style cuffs, you get a much more comfortable and snug fit, and they are also especially robust and secure. Short of some heavy duty fabric shears, there’s no escaping these guys until the top says so!

The buckle features a loop, which allows you to attach padlocks to keep them properly locked if desired. There is also a sturdy D-ring, which is handy for attaching the cuffs to bed posts, dungeon furniture, or each other.

It took a couple of goes to fully understand how to loop them through to close them properly. But overall, these cuffs are sturdy, soft and reliable and I can see then becoming a regular feature of my toy box.

red cuffs ladder

anniebear says:

I love the helplessness of bondage – it intensifies the power exchange of D/s play and helps me get into a great headspace. If you haven’t had a good spanking while helpless and bound, you haven’t lived.

Leather cuffs like these are great for fast and practical bondage. They may not have the same sensual art as rope bondage, but they get the job done.

There are enough size options that you should be able to get them closed nice and snug, but with enough room so that they are comfortable and don’t inhibit blood flow etc. I had them attached to a loft ladder pulling my wrists high and wide, and they are wide enough that I was comfortable in this position for at least 15 minutes. They aren’t suspension cuffs, so I wouldn’t want them taking my body weight, but fine for holding the weight of my arms.

I love the striking red that these ones came in. They come in some other colors too – I wouldn’t mind trying out the pink ones some time. There are also matching ankle cuffs which I bet would go great with a spreader bar – looking forward to testing those out another time. You can get this this exact pair from Stockroom. Make sure to come back and let us know what you think!

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Dexx Interviews Ken Marcus

November 14, 2016 By Desdemona 1 Comment

ken marcus photo

Dexx: You’ve been shooting fetish photography for decades, you’re a legend in the BDSM community, and probably the only fetish photographer that’s also a household name in the vanilla world. You didn’t start out doing Fetish photography or even pictures of people though, but rather with landscapes. So how did you actually become interested in photography all that time ago?

Ken Marcus: Well, I became interested as a kid. I think I was maybe five or six years old when I first picked up a camera and I was attracted to it. I got involved in doing dark room work, I think when I was around maybe eight years old. My brother had left a little kit from the boy scouts to earn a merit badge in the basement. I went down there one day, found it, pulled it out, read the instructions, mixed it up and started printing his negatives just because I was bored and thought that that would be fun to do. And it’s very addicting seeing pictures come up when you develop so I got into doing that and started studying with Ansel Adams at an early age.

When did you take your first fetish pictures?

That would have been in the early ’90s.

That wouldn’t have been the Penthouse magazine one by any chance?

No, well, yeah. Kind of. There was a layout that I did with a girl who was playing with some rope and wrapped it and did a couple of silly little things like that. You wouldn’t really call it bondage. But it was enough that that particular issue of Penthouse wasn’t allowed in the UK, not in England, not in Canada, not in Australia and it ended up costing them a couple of million dollars in sales. They were hesitant to do that again for a lot of years. Did a similar thing with Playboy. I got them banned once in Canada…got them to push a few boundaries and the Canadians pushed back. So…some of the weirdest laws revolve around pornography.

So presumably before you did that first shoot in the early ’90s, you had a personal interest in BDSM?

Absolutely. All my life. Every serious relationship that I had, anything that lasted more than a short period of time. I tried a couple vanilla relationships in my lifetime but those didn’t last. But in regards to photographing it, you just didn’t do that back then. That was asking for trouble. I came from a period of time when you could go to federal prison for showing pubic hair or genitalia in a photograph.

Wow! So times have changed for the better then?

Times have changed somewhat for the better. There are very active forces right now trying to get rid of porn, trying every clever conceivable way. “We want to protect the actors. Therefore we want them to all wear condoms”. Knowing full well that no one will ever buy porn with somebody wearing a condom.

But these days you can obviously find just about anything that you might want on the internet.

Exactly. Because the current laws in the United States do not affect anything on the Internet. The United States has no place involved in the Internet. We have no jurisdiction. We can’t do anything. We can add jurisdiction over the production of content, but once it’s out there, you know, it could come from anywhere. How are you going to stop it? So that’s kind of where the world is evolved to now.

So the restriction that’s coming on the production side and you mentioned the “condom” thing; is that California specific?

Yeah, because no one makes porn in other parts of the US legally. I believe there’s some place in New Hampshire where it’s still legal. It’s not legal anywhere in Florida, yet there is a thriving Florida porn business.

All right. When you were sort of into BDSM but not really doing any photography yet, was there a scene or a community?

No, there was no scene, there was no community, there was nothing until the Internet came along unless you were male, gay, and lived in West Hollywood and would have happened to be connected to the right people that knew where the right underground clubs were. And that was about all that there was for many, many years. It wasn’t until maybe the early ’90s that the first night clubs for straight people started to have a little bit of BDSM stuff in there. They would have someone like Sir Nik come in with bullwhips or whatever…that was very daring in those days.

So how did you meet people…to play with or to have D/s relationships with before then?

I’m a special case. All I ever had to do to meet women is either answer my phone or answer my door. At the age of 23 I became the Penthouse photographer shooting the centerfold then after that I spent 11 years with Playboy doing that. There has been a non-stop parade of some of the world’s most beautiful and erotic women. Did I say neurotic or erotic? …Well, it’s a typographical choice there. Anyway, like I said I was a special case. Having a studio on Melrose Avenue in Hollywood during the ’60s, the ’70s was an amazing time. There was great social upheavals happening and most of the people involved in all of this lived in the neighborhood and they could hardly wait to come in and take their clothes off and fuck on camera. But it wasn’t BDSM. I’m not even sure they even knew the words BDSM. There were some kinky girls who liked to get spanked, there were some kinky guys who liked to spank girls, that was about it. In regards to bondage, that was something that maybe you read about in a foreign publication that was smuggled into the United States. It really wasn’t until the Internet when people could go on and see what the Japanese would do with rope. And that was a big eye-opener. You know, basically what it said to guys is, “Wow, if I buy some rope, girls want to get naked and I can touch them.” There was a lot of that, kind of…and there still is around the peripherals of it. I think that it required certain amounts of a broad scale mainstream exposure to little elements of it here or there that peaked people’s interests. You cannot discount some of the costumes and music videos and other media that would pick up symbolic concepts from the BDSM world and then throw it out to their vanilla audience. So, I think that’s been very helpful.

So how did you learn the technical skills of BDSM like rope tying for example, to turn into your shoots?

Well, I have a friend, Ira Levine otherwise known as Ernest Greene, and in the early ’90s he was making a lot of bondage films. And one day he calls up and he is in the neighborhood and he has with him a girl who is a direct descendant of the man that is credited for inventing photography. Her name is, her last name is Daguerre, as in Daguerre types. Cindy Daguerre. So he brought her over and I have some time, and I had a backdrop set up. So he starts tying her up and I start taking pictures and that was cool and I gave him some prints and gave her some and it was fun. Then over the next two or three or four years periodically he’d come by and bring girls. I’d find girls, he’d come over and we worked a lot together and he is a true master of technique of those days. I specify of those days, because times change, there’s different things now. Not to say that he hasn’t mastered all of those things, too. But at that time that was the best you could get, so he was actually making a living, doing that. It was a period of about maybe three years we worked together, then one day I get this job from the Japanese to do a book for them. They liked the book, they gave me another book, they sent out their art director. The art director is in the studio, he speaks hardly any English, I speak hardly any Japanese and he comes across some of the bondage pictures that I have done with Ira and some of his girls. And makes a phone call to Japan. They call me back 20 minutes later, “Would you like to do a bondage book for us?” My first initial response was, “No.” Because first of all there was no bondage scene in the United States at that time and that stuff was considered not only porn but like really weird creepiness. No one understood; there was no exposure to that stuff at that time. And they kept bugging me about it, I kept thinking about it, then one night I came up with an idea. I called them and I said, “Okay, here’s my idea. You send me Japan’s greatest bondage master, I will find America’s greatest bondage master, we’ll put the two of them together, I’ll get a bunch of great looking girls, we’ll get some fabulous American locations and we’ll shoot a book.” And they went for it. So for ten days I had Ira and I had this guy from Japan tying up girls. Well, I’m photographing the thing and it’s like watching two masters do their individual styles. You know you watch one guy do something and you think, “Oh, that’s the way it has to be done.” But you watch two people from two different cultures doing the same thing and you realize there’re really different approaches to it. The Japanese guy came away from that thing, this really is much more like human macramé. It’s art. The American and European approach to it is more of…it’s painful restriction. Even though the Japanese, you know, originally started it for controlling prisoners. Anyway, two totally different things and I have an opportunity to work with him. I’ve been a trained artist all my life and I kind of understand art when I see someone do their art. It’s like, “Okay, I get it.” I have good hand eye coordination, I can do that if I put my mind to it and so I just started doing that at that time.

So, really early on you were photographing other people doing the bondage but presumably now you do a lot of the actual tying?

Oh, yeah. And then bondage now crosses that line in sexuality, which it never did way back when. And so now, you’ll not only tie up a girl but then you’ll tie things to her and you’re touching her and you turn her on and don’t let her out until, you know, the parking meter says it’s time to go, you know [laughs].

That sounds pretty fun.

Yeah. Well, it beats working. It’s a lot of work.[laughs]

So it seems like now we’re kind of enjoying a bit of a renaissance era of kink. There are clubs around the country and there are websites where people can connect with each other and it’s started to become much more accepted in mainstream culture as well. Is that how you see it as well?

Yeah. It’s lost its edge.

Right. But it’s also much more accessible for people, isn’t it?

That’s why it’s lost its edge. You know, it’s like as long as it had to remain closeted then it was something special. But, you know, if the teenagers that live next door and you have already seen Fifty Shades of Grey and are talking about all this stuff and you’re embarrassed because you’re hearing as you’re going through the supermarket, you know, maybe it’s time for some people to like catch up with the times. Things have changed.

And do you think that’s going to continue, as time moves on that it’ll just become something that’s quite normal? People won’t really feel particularly embarrassed.

Normal is different from accepted.

True.

If you were to compare with, for example, gay culture, which is now pretty accepted in many parts of the Western world. And that is something that happened within my lifetime that I never really expected to see much. I grew up in West Hollywood. You know, I always thought that was, rather funny that I grew up to be a centerfold photographer for magazines where I’m supposed to portray the quintessential girl next door. Whereas growing up on King’s Road in West Hollywood the girl next door was a 42 year-old man that wore a dress on the weekend. It’s a little different where I come from.

Right. So, some of the major Fetish porn producers like Intersec and Kink.com and yourself have obviously influenced a lot of the younger generation of kink minded people. Do you see that as being a positive influence?

Absolutely. It’s feeding a hunger, you know, I think that it’s important that people that have aggressiveness get in touch with an understanding what that aggressiveness is and how they can use it, what their options are. Just because you’re aggressive doesn’t mean you should go out and punch someone out but if the only way that you can get off is by punching someone out, find someone who likes to get punched out. It’s that simple, you know, everything has to be negotiated and accommodating to each one. So that’s what the BDSM world is providing outlets to…And, you know, the…I used an extreme example, we’re using physical violence because most of what goes on in BDSM really is more of a power exchange mental thing, you know. If you’re a dominant and you’re with someone who is submissive its nice to be able to let your dominant side come out and vice versa. Whereas we all have the function in polite societies so we can’t always be ourselves.

So out of all the fetish photography work that you’ve done over years, are there any projects that really stand out to you as highlights?

Well, certainly that book project that I did with Ira and Takashi, that was an eye opener, that was a milestone, that was something that I didn’t even understand at the time how important that would be.

I read that a long time ago you created your own light diffusers because nobody was making the kind that you wanted.

Nobody was making any kind. Now that kind of a look had fallen out of fashion for many years and as I was growing up in photography, everything was about sharpness and contrast and that’s just the way everything looked in those days. I always remember this one picture that Ansel Adams showed me that he had shot of some water, some trees, some bushes, sky and it was shot on an 8×10 view camera on a special Kodak soft focus lens. I always remember the way that that looked, it had a very romantic feel to it. It gave more of an impressionistic feel of what you were looking at rather than a clinical linear field. In talking about it with him, he said you know you don’t have to have one of these lenses you know, you can just take a piece of glass and rub some Vaseline over the front of it and put it there and it can do kind of the same thing. So many years later I’m getting ready to shoot my first layout for Penthouse Magazine and I realized all we’ve got is like a couch and a rug and it doesn’t even look that good. What am I gonna do? Well maybe if I diffuse it or blur it out? So I took a skylight filter, screwed it on, a little bit of Vaseline, shot it through this blurry, blurry thing. They loved it, they ran it, double page spread for the opening thing and for the next three years I had layouts, centerfolds, covers, everything in Penthouse Magazine every issue.

So aside from the light diffusion, is there any particular attribute that you would say distinguishes your work in terms of style or mood or content?

Well, no. I mean I have gone through a lot of different technical looks over the years. I think my strongest suit is composition lighting, the technical end of all of that.

How do you find models that are interested in doing BDSM shoots?

I’ve found a number of them on various modeling sites. Like Model Mayhem. I find some on Fetlife. I meet people socially, I get emails from people who are interested and live in other places that are willing to make a trip out here just to do a shoot.

Well I guess it must easier to find BDSM models now than twenty years ago, right.

Than ever before.

What do you look for in models? Presumably you have a lot to choose from.

Well, I would hope that they would be attractive, although sometimes I’ve experienced models that can do incredible things and they’re not your typical kind of of attractiveness. I like people that have a sense of experimentation about themselves, that want to push their limits, that have a sense of show business about themselves too. One of the nice things about living in Southern California, and being in Hollywood, is that you’re surrounded by some of the most talented people on earth. That’s what I find interesting, is that you’re never doing the same thing twice, even though you’re doing the same thing repeatedly because of the human element.

When you’re actually shooting with them, how do you prepare them or work with them to get the best out of them so that they’re presenting their best side?

I direct them. I’m a good director, I pay attention to detail and I share with them during the shoot. A lot of photographers don’t show people what they’re doing. I’ll stop every fifteen, twenty minutes or so, whenever I feel that it’s appropriate. They look at it and they go, “Oh that’s great, but can we do that again, but this time maybe I can point my foot more that way?” That’s where it pays off, you make them part of the creative process.

Are there any other kind of pitfalls for other photographers that might be starting out doing this kind of thing?

Sure, absolutely. Have insurance, absolutely! You’re gonna tie some girl up, you’re gonna run the risk of pinching a nerve or doing some sort of nerve damage that might cost her three months of not being able to work. You’re gonna get sued. Have at least a million dollars worth of insurance.

Do you have any other advice for any aspiring photographers just starting out, in terms of how to go about it?

I think the advice that I would give anybody with photography is have fun with it. Shoot everything, take a million pictures and then please don’t subject your friends to all of them. Do what’s known as editing. Call out the best ones, show a few around, have some fun with it but other than that, unless you’re trying to shoot for magazines or publications that have certain specific criteria that they look for, then don’t worry about it. That’s becoming less and less of an issue anyway because there are less and less print magazines.

If you were starting your own career all over again, would you do anything differently?

I would specialize in food.

Food photography?

Yeah. I did that for a while early in my career, it was the most money I have ever made in photography. It’s a fascinating field; it’s difficult to do. A lot of it’s involving digital manipulations these days but that’s true of anything. Yeah, big products, food, cars, I’m not even sure if architectural photography still pays, but there are large buildings that pay for things. There are still large paying accounts in the world of photography, but would I recommend that anybody go into that business? No.

Well it seems like you’re living the dream, so what’s next for you?

Well, I don’t know. My internet business is becoming increasingly less active than it has been. There are far more players in the business. I’m a one man show. It’s an entirely different kind of thing that I do. I don’t know of anyone else that’s doing this. I don’t know of anyone else that has the kind of operation that I do. I wouldn’t recommend it unless you have a lot of money behind you from something. I worked real hard for a lot of years to be able to afford this. So yeah, I’m living the dream because I’ve built a good solid foundation. That was one of the things that Ansel Adams instilled in me real, real early. He said everyone wants the pyramid but you’ve got to start with that first level. Build the strongest, best foundation that you can. Then as life goes on, you build on that, see where it gets you. Good advice.

Anything else you would like to say to our readers?

Well, let’s see, play nice, don’t steal pictures off the internet and republish them, join websites, think of kink as a religion: spend 15% of your income every month on supporting websites and toy manufacturers.

Ken Marcus is Los Angeles-based photographer specializing in erotica and BDSM for over fifty years. His work has been published in Playboy, Penthouse, and many more. View more information on Ken here: www.kenmarcus.com

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Oh, the things one sees at DomCon!!!!

May 30, 2016 By anniebear 4 Comments

For any of our regular readers, you know we recently attended DomCon in Los Angeles. This is the largest lifestyle and professional BDSM event in the Los Angeles area and it is highly anticipated by all! Kink Weekly was in the house talking about our magazine and also meeting some of our readers, which was extremely rewarding!

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We had some fun stickers to hand out and I snapped a few pictures with some of my BDSM idols. I think I really managed to play it cool…kind of.

Swooning over Goddess Fae from San Diego.
Swooning over Goddess Fae from San Diego.
Our friend Ken Marcus was on the scene snapping pics.
Our friend Ken Marcus was on the scene snapping pics.

I was only able to make it to one class, Victorian Style Birching, as I was manning (womanning?) the Kink Weekly booth and boy was it a good one! I’ll talk about it later in this article. I also had a chance to walk around the vendor floor and check out some of the crazy inventions that people come up with. The sky is the limit and I’ll never stop being amazed by the devious and cunning minds of these kinky crafters. My partner Dexx was in his element as he fancies himself a kinky inventor of torture devices, some of which have been featured in past Kink Weekly shoots.

I wanted to share some of my finds with those who were not able to attend. Perhaps you’ve seen some of these items before? Or maybe you’re one of these inventors; to you I say well done, Sir or Madam!

A makeshift butt plug holder-Orchid and Serpent

Yes, it is exactly what it looks lie.
Yes, it is exactly what it looks lie.

This one was a bit tongue in cheek. Orchid and Serpent scored the mother of all butt plug holders (does anyone out there have enough butt plugs to even warrant a butt plug holder?) with this discarded child’s toy turned amazing use of up cycling! Yes, that is a Barbie Doll game. Yes, those are all butt plugs inserted into each hole of the Barbie Doll game. The story goes that one of the owners of Orchid and Serpent spotted this toy at a garage sale and as the kink minded are often known to do, a “pervertable” was found! Some may think it’s inappropriate (but we don’t hang out with those people) I call it genius!

Double Flogger-Ravynblood Leather

Double flogger by Master Gabriel.
Double flogger by Master Gabriel.

Master Gabriel, the mastermind behind this piece has finally outdone himself. You may know him as the maker of the Composition Book paddle and also having a penchant for making his submissives kneel on Legos. This double flogger provides double the impact. Just when you think the flogger strike is going to end, it is quickly followed by another one all in one motion. His household members at the booth were kind enough to give a demo. This toy is used with a rotating motion of the wrist that is actually quite easy to master. I was also impressed that the flogger falls did not tangle amongst themselves. It was one smooth double whammy!

Vajankle-Orpheus Black

It's a vajankle.
It’s a vajankle.

While Orpheus is typically a seller of knives for edge play, I was delighted to see this item at his booth this year. You read correctly; it’s an ankle and a vagina so a vajankle! When I was told the name of this specific toy, I cried with laughter. However, someone is into this particular kink and that’s ok! The feet are sold as a set with the second one just being a fake foot, sans the vagina. I’m also happy to report that on the third and final day of DomCon, the vajankle had been purchased by a lucky attendee.

Bugs!-I did not get this vendor’s name! If anyone knows please let me know in the comments!

Creepy crawlies!
Creepy crawlies!

This booth was full of creepy crawlies, but luckily they were all diseased or I would have been out of there…or maybe burn the place down. Check out those spiders and bats! They were all encased in solid glass which would make for a great conversation piece. But now that I’m thinking about it, they would also be good for the sadist because if my Dom stuck one of those on my face I don’t think I would be pleased!

A double leather hood-Edgeplay Gear

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Just in case you need a hood in side a hood, Edgeplay Gear has you covered (no pun intended). I think this hood is for those huge leather enthusiasts mixed with a bit of asphyxiation. You can over your sub’s head and then zip them up inside the dual masking feature. Tighten the collar for added terror! It reminds me a bit of Texas Chainsaw Massacre with “Leather Face!

Big ass floggers-Tawan Leather

Check out the size of this bad boy! By Tawan Leather, hailing from Las Vegas.
Check out the size of this bad boy! By Tawan Leather, hailing from Las Vegas.

Never in my life have I seen a flogger of this magnitude. Even the largest Fox Flogger I experienced in New Zealand could compare. It reminded me of a witch’s broom, except it packs a much bigger punch. Getting hit with this bad boy was akin to getting kicked in the butt, hard! I had to make sure I was stabilized enough to sustain the impact. Our booth was across from Tawan’s and we got to watch people getting walloped all weekend long! Hilarious!

I was pretty nervous but took it like a champ!
I was pretty nervous but took it like a champ!

“The Mistress Molly 3 Loop Extreme” made by Caniac.com and Miss Molly

Apparently this is not for the faint of heart.
Apparently this is not for the faint of heart.

I’ve seen a lot of impact toys, but nothing quite like this. There was quite a bit of weight to this piece, making it super effective. Miss Molly from New Hampshire nicknames this one “her baby” as she spent significant time crafting the design and layout. She says, “It’s all hand made by a wonderful married couple from Massachusetts and comes with a lifetime warranty. I worked with Caniac to develop the “The Mistress Molly Red Line Extreme” toys, which as the name indicates are their most severe implements they make. Not for your beginner spanko!” You’ll receive no complaints from me! She was also accepting donations for Alhpa Dog Rescue and portions of her proceeds also go to that rescue group; anything that helps animals is aces in my book!

Scary repurposed metal stuff-Industrial Dis-ease

Despite their size, these packed a lot of weight behind them.
Despite their size, these packed a lot of weight behind them.

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There must not be much to do in Wisconsin or else these guys are just really clever. They have a whole stock of stuff that looks like you could beat the shit out of someone (consensually of course), barely have to exact any effort, and leave wicked marks. All of their products are made from pipe, chain, and anything else metal. Their floggers were pieces of pipe with ball chains attached yet they still looked elegant and well crafted. These weren’t the dinky chains that come with necklaces-this was heavy duty, watch your ass kind of stuff. I was also presented with a demo of the light saber cane! It has interchangeable color tubes so you can be a Jedi one day or a member of the Imperial Force another. Definitely toys for the sadistic!

Spiked tray and wooden stocks-Torrid Timber

A secret bottom compartment for spikes!
A secret bottom compartment for spikes!

Chris of Torrid Timber has beautiful, handmade items ranging from paddles to spiked coasters. But by far the most impressive piece were his slave stocks. Need something to completely immobilize your slave? Stick them in some stocks with ankle cuffs and chains and they won’t go anywhere! This elegantly designed, modern piece has an easy to use locking mechanism that is cleverly out of reach from the subject wearing the stocks. He was also sporting a tray with a removable bottom to allow the subject carrying or holding it to feel tiny little spikes. It’s genius design offers minimal effort if say your submissive is a human table with the tray on their back. Just keep adding items on the tray to increase the level of discomfort. We can’t wait to see what he comes up with next!

Birch Rod-Birchen Boutique

Traditional birch rod
Traditional birch rod

As I mentioned I was only able to attend one class; Victorian Style Birching or as the instructor Daddy Johnny likes to point out, a class on sticks. But do not be deceived! This implement is one of the most punishing a bottom can ever experience! It’s basically a bundle of sticks, often treated in a saltwater brine tied or taped together. Then the Dominant takes them and wallops the submissive as many times as they can stomach. It is not for the faint of heart or light bottomed. Twigs fly everywhere and it often opens up the flesh in tiny (or not so tiny) micro cuts. A shower is recommended after to get all of the stick particles out of the cuts or you can elongate the subs punishment by holding off on the shower for a little while. Daddy Johnny delivered an extensive and fascinating history on birching followed by multiple live demos from himself and Sir Valentino. At the end of the class, you even got to make your own birch rod. Birchen Boutique also has the more historical version of the stocks, made with intricate and beautiful designs. One of the demo bottoms was also sporting the “shrew’s fiddle,” a parallel version of stocks. I give major accolades to the demo bottoms in this class, as it was not an easy one.

I’m sure there are many more crazy inventions where these came from. Kinksters are known to be creative and this only further proves this theory. What kind of things have you all seen? Any off the wall toys or equipment? We’d love to hear about it in the comments!

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What’s Your Kink?

February 29, 2016 By Baadmaster 3 Comments

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Obviously, kinks are important; after all we are titled KINK Weekly! So, let’s look at the world of kink!

“Kink” (dictionary.com): bizarre or unconventional sexual preferences or behavior

I do not work for the NBC Poll. But, I would bet that most people have sexual and/or play kinks. In the so-called vanilla world, they are usually viewed in a negative way. As a result, most mainstream commentators think that kinkiness is not the norm. But is anyone truly normal? Besides, normal or not, being kinky can be a lot of fun.

Post “Fifty Shades of Gray,” those even slightly into this lifestyle have a fresher way of looking at kinks and fetishes. Many are accepting that the danger of kinks lies not in having them, but in not acting on them. (We are of course, talking about consensual, legal adult kinks.)

The list of kinks is almost endless. In our handy-dandy Kink Weekly Checklist (below), there are more than two pages. And this is far from complete. Here is the checklist:

Abandonment
Acrophobia – being aroused from heights.
Acrotomophilia – being aroused by amputees.
Agalmatophilia – being aroused by statues.
Ass worship
Barosmia – being aroused by smells.
Being recorded
Body parts (including surgically enhanced)
Bondage
Boot worship
Branding
Brown showers
Catheterization
Chains
Chamber pots
Choking
Clamps
Cock cages
Cock rings
Corsets
Cross-dressing
Dirty sex (literal) – sexual activity in and around dirt, mud, or oil.
Douching
Electricity
Enemas
Erotic dancing
Exhibitionism
Fear play
Feathers/fur
Fire play
Foot worship
Caging
Confinement
Getting pain
Golden showers
Group sex
Cuckolding
Giving pain
Gun play
High heel worship
High Protocol
Humiliation
Immobilization
Infantilism
Knife play
Lactation
Latex
Leather
Lingerie
Medical instruments
Needles
Nuru massage
Obedience
Oral sex
Piercing (temporary and permanent)
Pet play
Piss play
Posing
Prostitution (role play)
Prostitution (real)
Public exposure
PVC
Recording scenes
Rituals
Saline infusion
Saran wrap
Sensory deprivation
Shaving
Skinny-dipping
Sex Slavery
Slut play
Spandex
Spanking
Speculums (anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Spitting
Swallowing semen
Taking erotic photos
Tasting yourself
Tattoos
Tickling
Training
Uniforms
Voyeurism
Wax play
Wearing fluids
Whips
Wrestling
Writing on submissive

Quite a list. Hard to get bored around here!

We all have at least some of these kinks. “Rituals,” “Slut play” and “Sex Slavery” are just three of my many kinks. And, if you add to the list some of the more common “vanilla” fetishes such as the ever-popular “big breast” fetish, you can see that the only people without kinks and fetishes are those that don’t admit to having them. Think of our list as a “Kink Buffet”: pick out those that turn you on, skip the ones that don’t!

So, how do you find a partner to indulge your kinky needs? The best way is this super-effective technique, exclusive to Kink Weekly that I will share with you. Just ask (even at the risk of getting slapped) every prospective partner, “What’s your kink?” (Thus, the title of the article. It took awhile, but we got there!) This line works – even in vanilla settings. It has an edginess and gets to the point rather quickly.

Since everyone has a kink, why not find out if someone’s perversions dovetail into yours? “What’s your kink,” or the alternate “What’s your fetish?” asked even at a vanilla bar, might just be the ticket!

And in future issues, we will spotlight many of these kinks both in word and image. Here at Kink Weekly, we want our members to be able to “scratch that kinky itch.” Because if you don’t, you might have a permanent frown on your face!

By Baadmaster
After a ten year run as head writer for the legendary bondage.com, and an equally long run as the host of the hit internet show “Baadmaster’s Dungeon,” we are pleased to welcome the one and only Baadmaster to KinkWeekly. His thoughts about all things BDSM will now appear regularly on these pages. From the mental aspects of D/s to the nuts and bolts of S&M play, Baadmaster will cover every facet of this ever expanding lifestyle.

Tagged With: bdsm, fetish, Journey, kink, Terminology

Kinky fun at the 2016 AVNs, Las Vegas

January 25, 2016 By Desdemona 3 Comments

The AVN expo and awards took place in Las Vegas over the past week. anniebear and I had the pleasure of attending for the first time.

Hosted at the Hard Rock Hotel, the event is at it’s heart a porn industry event, but it does have some BDSM elements as well, which is of course what we were most interested in checking out.

The expo is big enough that it sprawls across three large halls. Porn producers and stars filled many of the booth spaces, with opportunities for attendees to meet and take pictures with their favorite performers. Virtual Reality (VR) porn was heavily featured, suggesting that goggle wearing 3D video may be the future of the industry.

Upstairs, “The Lair” offered a section of the exhibition dedicated to fetish and BDSM. Coordinated by Sanctuary’s Mistress Cyan, vendors and kinksters from Vegas and across America came to offer their wares. With play spaces at either end, there were scheduled performances and workshops throughout the expo, including rope and whip displays. There was even time for anniebear to get a quick demo from Leather by Danny and Scott at Flogger Knows best. She’s never one to turn down some “funishment.”

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On the main stage, we were treated to a stage show by Stockroom’s cabaret crew, led by the fabulous Hudsy Hawn. My personal favorite involved some advanced pet-play, with Skin Diamond playing the part of a very sexy kitty who got the cream… and then poured it all over herself (bottles and bottles of the stuff) before splashing around in it and making a great big creamy mess all over the stage.

Skin Diamond, the kitty who got the cream
Skin Diamond, the kitty who got the cream

Back in the exhibit hall, we came across some cool booths. One vendor, Rubber Nipple catering to age play on a whole new level, with adult sized pacifiers, cute adult sized diapers, and a giant inflatable crib. anniebear couldn’t resist jumping in a for a little nap.

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Just across the way, a leather craft store visiting from New York, Touch of Fur offered high quality floggers and live demonstrations. The owner was kind enough to give anniebear a good old flogging (was that her second or third for the day?), before teaching me some new tricks. I was finally able to get the hang of the double Florentine, something I intend to keep practicing with anniebear… regularly.

As we walked past the Clips4Sale booth, performer Ashley Fires spotted us and beckoned anniebear over to offer her a public spanking in front of the watching crowd. Well, it’s not every day that you get offered a spanking by a hot porn star, so we of course obliged her and anniebear enjoyed a wonderful little play scene with Ashley and her friends.

Mid-spank with the girls.
anniebear mid-spank with the Ashley Fires and friends

There were many parties on throughout the week, all with wonderful themes and all sorts of interesting folks. The one we were most interested in was of course The Lair Fetish party at Club Vinyl hosted by House Ravynblood. This was where all the kinky crowd were to be found, and it featured stage performances including the hilarious Sir Gear, and the captivating Emily Marilyn. There was a who’s who of notable kinksters in attendance, including Ken Marcus, Mistress Cyan and Master Eragon.

On Saturday evening, we met up with Playboy Radio who were kind enough to do a live on air interview with anniebear and myself about Kink Weekly. They were very interested to learn more about the BDSM community, and we hope that some of their listeners will make 2016 the year that they decide to more fully explore their kinky side.

Playboy Radio in progress with Mike, Holly, and some bunnies.
Playboy Radio in progress with Michael, Holli, and some bunnies.

Saturday night brought the culmination of the show and the main event – the AVN Awards themselves.

Fans and press flocked to the Hard Rock hotel to catch glimpses of their favorite stars – for once dressed up to the nines in fabulous outfits. Everyone was so beautiful and well dressed, one observer noted that it would be difficult to tell the difference between the AVN red carpet and that of the Oscars.

The awards ceremony was hosted by well known adult actresses Annika Albright and Joanna Angel. The pair did not fail to disappoint, even performing a song and dance number “That’s what porn’s all about”.

When it came to the awards themselves, kink had a good night. BDSM flick “The Submission of Emma Marx: Boundaries” cleaned up with four awards, including Best Actress (Penny Pax) and Best Screenplay. Meanwhile, Kink.com took the award for “best alternative website”.

Performer James Deen took a diminished role compared with previous years. Nominated for 33 awards, he was all charm and smiles on the red carpet. However, Deen has been mired in accusations of rape and abuse – first by ex-girlfriend and fellow performer Stoya in November of 2015, and then by a series of other female co-stars. In the end, in taking only two minor groups awards, he did not appear on stage – the award committee no doubt keen to avoid being overtly associated with him amidst the storm of allegations.

Myself and anniebear are now back in Los Angeles, recuperating from a most eventful weekend in Las Vegas. I think it’s safe to say it was one for the books.

Writer, photographer, hedonist, Dom. After years of at-home BDSM, Dexx finally embraced the kink community and met many fantastic fellow kinksters in the scene. Along the way, it occurred to him that it would be just super if there was a magazine-style web site which catered to people interested in BDSM, and he recruited some of his friends to help create it.

Tagged With: avn expo, avns, bdsm, Event, fetish, las vegas, las vegas bdsm, review

Mistress Lucy

November 23, 2015 By Desdemona Leave a Comment

Photographer: Dexx Model: Mistress Lucy

Mistress Lucy is back in this wickedly fun photo spread and she’s looking at YOU. Her mind is brimming with ways to tease and torture in her dungeon. What will she come up with next?

Mistress Lucy is a professional dominatrix based in Los Angeles, CA. For more information or to contact her regarding sessions, visit her web site.

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Tagged With: bdsm, dominatrix, fetish, mistress lucy, photography, scene

Mistress Lucy trains Her puppy

November 2, 2015 By Desdemona 1 Comment

Photographer: Dexx Models: Mistress Lucy and Renata Colette

Mistress Lucy was bored. She was tired of the same old tricks. While perusing the local bookstore, something caught her eye…a puppy training guide. Interesting, and she had just the perfect little puppy on which to practice.

Mistress Lucy is a professional dominatrix based in Los Angeles, CA. For more information or to contact her regarding sessions, visit her web site.

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Tagged With: dominatrix, dynamic, fetish, girl, latex, photography, puppy play, slave, submission

Wax Play for Beginners

October 26, 2015 By Baadmaster 7 Comments

wax play
Photo by Vice Erotica

We have covered some of the BDSM basics in our first few Kink Weekly articles. Now, let’s give you an edge play activity that is both exciting yet easy to do right “out of the box.”

One of the easiest to learn and have fun with is wax play – but only as long as you follow some of the basic rules I will outline below.

Simply put, wax play is the act of the Dominant pouring hot, melted wax onto the body of the submissive. This is a very popular BDSM activity because hot wax on the body can cause incredible sensations.

Compared to other edge play activities — knife play, fire play, breath control, needle play, gun play, temporary piercings, surface burns/temporary brandings, golden showers, fantasy rape and abduction, burial scenes, mummification and electrical play (most of which we will cover in future issues of Kink Weekly) – wax play would appear to be quite safe. Wrong.

Wax play, done improperly, can be quite dangerous. First of all, hot wax is – duh – hot. Too hot and it can hurt, scald or even blister the submissive. And although it is safe if you follow these precautions, I would still recommend you attend a Wax Play class at any of the local dungeons.

All candles do not burn at the same temperature. The temperature is determined by the kind of wax that you use. Never use beeswax; it gets very hot and can cause serious injuries. The most expensive candles — with their hardening agents, perfumes and other chemical additives — are often the ones that burn the hottest. So, start with cheap, paraffin based white candles. This is one of the few areas in life where cheaper is better.

Before dripping hot wax on a submissive, first perform a heat check. Hold the candle a couple of feet above the back of your hand and drip it there. If it does not burn you, then it is a go. If it does burn, experiment to find a safe dripping height. And keep this “safe height” firmly in mind during the session.

Start by dripping wax from a little above this “safe height.” You can gradually lower it, but never go below this “safe height.” If you wish to go lower, test it on yourself again. When dripping wax on sensitive areas (such as the breasts, nipples, clit, labia, penis, scrotum, rectum, etc) always err on the side of safety and drip from a greater height than usual.

Also, watch out for “pooling.” There are spots on the body which are natural depressions where the wax can “pool,” thus increasing the heat factor. This can lead to blistering.

Finally, keep a bucket of water handy. I have heard tales of a candle being dropped and the sheet set on fire. Fire is fire. Treat it as such.

If you take these precautions, wax play can be one of the safest forms of edge play.

Now for some extra fun! Peeling the wax off the skin can create a variety of intense sensations; peeling faster or slower, stopping and starting – peeling wax as a BDSM art form with the submissive as the canvas! Also, running a feather, fur glove or even a tongue over the peeled area can be a sexy way to prolong the waxing session. (However wax on hair can be a real pain to remove – be forewarned.) Also, use a throwaway sheet or drop cloth. Wax is really impossible to remove, despite what the late night TV hucksters claim for their super-duper amazo cleaning products!

Tagged With: art, bdsm, Classes, edge play, fetish, ideas, newbies, scene, wax play

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