Interview with Shay

How did you get your start in the Kink Community? What drew you to this lifestyle? I came into the kink community in 2003, when my partner Stefanos and I were living in Minnesota. Prior to that, Stefanos had been involved in fetish event production, and we’d both done kinky bedroom play for pretty much as long as we’d been having sex. We were also both Live Action Role … [Read more...]

On My Knees: Part 2

Dominatrix: Mercenary Mistress Photographer: Danny Stygion Corset: FetCraft MUA: Texas Dela Rosa Shoes: Refuse To Be Usual Location: Austin Dungeon For Part 1 Click Here We got up to the top floor of the hotel and Master instructed me to get on my knees by His hotel room door and He led me into the room by the leash on all fours. “Take off all of your clothes … [Read more...]

Relationship Dynamics

Dominatrix: Mercenary Mistress Photographer: Danny Stygion Corset: FetCraft MUA: Texas Dela Rosa Shoes: Refuse To Be Usual Location: Austin Dungeon Relationship dynamics are so very individual.  Vanilla or kink, everyone has to develop their own working model.  The funny thing is that if you google the words "relationship dynamic definition," you get a bunch of … [Read more...]

Interview with Submissive Cupcake SinClair

Rico J Coria Photography Can you tell us a little about your background and how you got your start in the Kink Community? I was a bit of an introvert growing up and had more books than friends back in the day! One day, I stumbled across Marquis de Sade’s book “Justine” and  my curiousity was peaked! I did my research and never looked back. I went to munches, then play … [Read more...]

Navigating Negotiations With Chronic Pain or Illness

I write from my own experiences and from the submissive perspective.  I realize there are many s-type identifiers (slave/sub/bottom/brat, etc.) and many D-Type identifiers (Master/Dom/Top/etc.). However, for the sake of simplicity for this article, I will use sub and Dom going forward. The same is true of gender identifiers that correspond with s-types and D-Types. However, … [Read more...]